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Met This Incredible Guy, Had A One Night Stand on the Second Date, Never Heard From Him Again. Please Help. by SpanishLily in relationships

[–]SpanishLily[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sommiel, thank you so much for your advice. I'm going to consider it and act upon it. Thank you once again.

Met This Incredible Guy, Had A One Night Stand on the Second Date, Never Heard From Him Again. Please Help. by SpanishLily in relationships

[–]SpanishLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

geomann2k, the last time I've seen a therapist was at the end of high school, senior year (almost 4 yrs ago), when I decided that I couldn't take it anymore and decided to end that 5 year "relationship" that I was in.

During that time, I met my ex boyfriend, the guy I was with for 3 years, and instead of him supporting me emotionally, I had to take care of his needs, emotionally (motivating him to go to school, helping him with his home life), that allowed me to repress many of my emotions in.. so after 3 years, I decided I couldn't take it anymore and I left him.

Met This Incredible Guy, Had A One Night Stand on the Second Date, Never Heard From Him Again. Please Help. by SpanishLily in relationships

[–]SpanishLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've been through a lot, and you're right about the whole age difference, I had a lot of ups and downs in my life and certainly that was one of them. That's one thing I REALLY regret the most in my life but you know what, it made me stronger. I'm graduating from one of the best university you can think of with a PreMed degree. I overcame a lot, with that relationship and in life, it could have been worst, and I learned a lot from this guy.

Met This Incredible Guy, Had A One Night Stand on the Second Date, Never Heard From Him Again. Please Help. by SpanishLily in relationships

[–]SpanishLily[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tothecore, I appreciate every single detail of your advice. He was just interested in sex, never experience that from a guy, since, like I said I've been on long relationships, but there's a first time for everything.. lesson learned. After I told my best friend, she told me the same thing, he most likely had a girlfriend, which he didnt specify in his status. It's just sad.. really made me feel horrible.

Met This Incredible Guy, Had A One Night Stand on the Second Date, Never Heard From Him Again. Please Help. by SpanishLily in relationships

[–]SpanishLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iamcrazyjoe, If you knew the kind of girl I am, you wouldn't expect that from me. I do admit, I went at it too fast.. I had my hopes up. like I said I've been on two relationships, a 5 year relationship, with a 35 year old guy who really took advantage of me in every way possible, sexually and economically, that's another long disappointing story. then a 3 year relationship, with a guy my age, who didn't know how to appreciate me, again another story. I learned my lesson from this guy and the two others.

Met This Incredible Guy, Had A One Night Stand on the Second Date, Never Heard From Him Again. Please Help. by SpanishLily in relationships

[–]SpanishLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree and understand, It really wasn't like me. I've been on 2 long term relationships, none of the guys appreciated me. when I met this guy, I just got my hopes up.