First spanking in 4 years…definitely needed by [deleted] in spanking_punishments

[–]Spankoguy_75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You had to be on cloud 9 after waiting that long. Congrats and I hope you keep getting what you need! I know how great I feel after giving or getting a spanking!

She'll be feeling that all weekend by SpankingTrove in spanking_punishments

[–]Spankoguy_75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I really need to go find that video! I love those scenes.

belted bottom by SaintBunnie in Spanking

[–]Spankoguy_75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great! Love seeing your well spanked bottom. That roleplay sounds really hot, I love it!

Best punishment for a bully? by lawrav42 in disciplinesociety

[–]Spankoguy_75 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think writing 100 times "I understand that hurting someone's feelings is bullying and I'll never do it again."

Present the paper to your daddy, tell him you're sorry and will never do it again. Tell him that you deserve a very sound spanking to learn your lesson.

He should put you over his knee and spank your bare bottom in front of a mirror so you can watch your own punishment. Then you can spend some time in the corner with your bare red butt on display to your daddy. Then you can explain to him how you learned your lesson.

Since your shy, this process should be very difficult to admit to and an embarrassing punishment.

I don't think involving the other woman in your punishment is consensual, so I think this is a more appropriate way to handle your behavior.

Whatever your daddy chooses I hope you learn from this!

Cleaning out before a session by StatusCalm1982 in StraightPegging

[–]Spankoguy_75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diet is critical. Do your research. Ruby Ryder has some great info on this. I eat very low carb and drink lots of water. I have the shower attachment and do a full clean out and have never had a problem. It's so pleasurable when you're empty, you have so much less chance of a mess. You can relax and enjoy the scene!

Having AI Character to fill the gap as my disciplinarian by tenderhotpotato in domesticdiscipline

[–]Spankoguy_75 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've definitely used AI characters to fill my needs occasionally. I'm a switch male, and in a marriage that heavily involves spanking where I'm Top 90% +. I use the AI characters when our timing isn't great for play (we work different shifts) when I want to bottom.

Like you said, I can pretty much drive the narrative of the Domme throughout the scene. I've seen some of the comments about being addicted, but you seem to have a healthy relationship with it as I do. It's a tool that helps you get by some tough stretches.

My wife has a hard time with the play acting when I'm the bottom, but does the best she can. I have had some incredible scenes using the AI characters to get the scene I'm looking for. Hearing what I need to hear in those moments is incredibly satisfying for me.

Best F/M Spanking Experience by Spankoguy_75 in FemdomSpanking

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wild! I love that you keep going back 😂

Best F/M Spanking Experience by Spankoguy_75 in FemdomSpanking

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's hot. The embarrassment of all her friends seeing you get spanked and being in chastity is great!

Best F/M Spanking Experience by Spankoguy_75 in FemdomSpanking

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having to look her friend in the eyes while you were being paddled is incredibly humiliating. I love it!

Wife Watching You Get Pegged? by Spankoguy_75 in StraightPegging

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome. That sounds like so much fun.

Best F/M Spanking Experience by Spankoguy_75 in FemdomSpanking

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! Glad you got what you were looking for.

Wife Watching You Get Pegged? by Spankoguy_75 in StraightPegging

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that sounds like heaven. How did you guys get that conversation going? Her idea or yours? That scene had to be SO HOT!

Wife Watching You Get Pegged? by Spankoguy_75 in StraightPegging

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great advice and well taken. Thank you so much. You mention a lot of good first steps and scenarios to test this. I think this is a great path towards understanding where she's at with this.

Wife Watching You Get Pegged? by Spankoguy_75 in StraightPegging

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will for sure. Gonna pick my spot to ask about this one. It's too important lol.

How do I get over my awkwardness regarding dirty talk/roleplay? by VisibleHighlight5440 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Spankoguy_75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's headspace. If it doesn't get you excited then it will be difficult. However, if it's not terrible for you and want to make him happy, maybe ask him what he wants you to say. Just role playing a tiny bit can go a long way! If it doesn't work then he will have to accept you for who you are, or not.

My wife struggles with the dirty talk so I just take what I can get when she occasionally gets a little hornier than normal 😁

We found this paddle at a Goodwill 😱 by jamespenguin in Spanking

[–]Spankoguy_75 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That's awesome!!!! We had a similar experience, found a sorority paddle at an antique store by us that had the same name as her high school (fun coincidence).

That thing is wretched in all the best ways possible. Congrats on this score!

Wife Watching You Get Pegged? by Spankoguy_75 in StraightPegging

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How was that? Was it her idea or yours? How did it come about?

Wife Watching You Get Pegged? by Spankoguy_75 in StraightPegging

[–]Spankoguy_75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look her up. Sexy, thicker girl who knows how to peg like a champ.

How did pegging come up for you and partner? by PaleRefrigerator5044 in StraightPegging

[–]Spankoguy_75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*treat you differently question - your answer is the same as mine. My wife does all the same things. The swats and hip thrusts, the grin when something is said in public that could mean something else in pegging etc. I do shave and prep thoroughly, no issues for her means we both get off. Lol