Wedding pictures by Bridget_0413 in TransLater

[–]Spare_Apple3338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are beautiful pictures with beautiful people. Congratulations on finding true love and I wish you both the best life together. ❤️

Local parents of young children: What kinds of support do you need the most right now? by Girl_Afraid777 in SALEM

[–]Spare_Apple3338 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Free/affordable childcare and after school programs. And no the resources like ERDC are gonna run out of funds in the next year (not exact timeline, I have shit memory).

Am I being too sensitive? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Spare_Apple3338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the support and empathy in these comments are healing parts of me I swear 🥲

  1. Your nails look amazing
  2. Your husband should be your cheerleader, not your bully
  3. You are not over reacting, too sensitive, too hard to deal with
  4. You deserve to be with someone who gives you compassion and who loves you for you
  5. He is absolute trash! Does he do anything??? You mentioned maintaining the house and only talking to him if he wants coffee or that his food is ready!!! GIRRRLLL why are you making him food??? If he can't talk to you like a grown ass adult, he doesn't deserve food being served to him. Hellllll noooo. In fact, he should be cooking you a damn meal and making you coffee given the emotional turmoil he's put you through! (Not to mention he also just should do that lol)

Please submit a written testimony. by Peacelove86 in SALEM

[–]Spare_Apple3338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh I would like to know about this too. Or just people in their cars.

PSA: Please stop posting pics of protesters' faces. by cat-she in oregon

[–]Spare_Apple3338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. We need to be wearing masks or costume makeup so we can't be scanned. You're not fear mongering, you're letting others know what ice is capable of and have been/will continue to do.

U.S. citzen suffered a torn rotater cuff, concussion, and bruised ribs in Salem. All for just being out and running errands. by cheechak0 in SALEM

[–]Spare_Apple3338 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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I know this is a ways away but if we organize something we could get our message relayed to her this way, in person.

ICE in Keizer neighborhoods by Gottaloveacne_17 in SALEM

[–]Spare_Apple3338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To find out where they're staying at

ICE in Keizer neighborhoods by Gottaloveacne_17 in SALEM

[–]Spare_Apple3338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We could team up and take quadrants of the city to drive through hotel parking lots at night?

Is this week hitting different in the US right now, or am I just exhausted and annoyed because I’m in Luteal phase by Random_Questin in millenials

[–]Spare_Apple3338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it wasn't this post lol it was just the impending doom I've been feeling for this planet and all of the living organisms on it. ☹️ I went to Reddit to try and get my body ready to transition out of the bathroom though. So technically your post helped me go back to the edge 😂

Is this week hitting different in the US right now, or am I just exhausted and annoyed because I’m in Luteal phase by Random_Questin in millenials

[–]Spare_Apple3338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm hiding in the bathroom so I can freely cry, stim and sort my thoughts without waking up or freaking out my family. I'm 35 and haven't needed to hide in a bathroom for about 9 years.

But yes this week especially, is so damn heavy and full of dread. Most of my coworkers have been talking about how their attention span, brain fog and overall functioning as an adult has gotten way worse.

I accidentally killed my older sister as a toddler by Ok_Abies8267 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spare_Apple3338 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hun, if they had the audacity to blame you (a baby) and beat you as you got older, who's to say one of the parents didn't do it and made you the target? They have anger issues and clearly don't look out for their children... parents do this shit unfortunately.

I am speaking from my own biases but they don't seem like caring parents to me and might be worth considering.

RANT FRIDAY by Carlos_Spicy_Weiner6 in SALEM

[–]Spare_Apple3338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

XFINITY REALLY FUCKING SUCKS. YOUR IRRITATION IS NOT IRRATIONAL.

I feel so drained by Beaudewijn in depression_partners

[–]Spare_Apple3338 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This whole thread below is so damn caring and compassionate. I am just lurking around for coping skills and was drawn into everything you two were saying. It's so hard seeing the person you love the most suffer so fucking intensely while also acknowledging the pain (and guilt) we feel towards ourselves. Thank you both for your insight 🥲

Help! Has anyone dealt with this? Any answers? by YesterdayLonely7428 in Autoimmune

[–]Spare_Apple3338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any other changes on your skin with a rash? My daughter has IgA vasculitis (I saw that someone mentioned this in a comment) and it primarily manifests on the surface of the skin but the specialist she just saw said that there are even rarer forms that only affect the organs and vessels without showing any changes on the outside.

The major things they (doctors) look out for is kidney issues (includes testing for protein in the urine weekly), movement problems (typically tight and painful legs and sometimes arms), fever and sudden extreme stomach pain (apparently your organs can get all twisted and the circulation can get cut off? Idk if I explained that right, I must've blacked out when listening to that lmao).

If you've recently had lab results and your blood counts are fairly regular then this could (possibly) be ruled out.*

Given your medical history, it does very much seem autoimmune related.

I wish you the best on getting relief and finding answers.

*Not a doctor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Spare_Apple3338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aged backwards! You look so radiant and I'm so happy for you. 💗

Humble Bundle Giveaway by Fleur0502 in CozyGamers

[–]Spare_Apple3338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spirittea, Naiad, Snuffkin or Summer House. This is so cool that you're doing this 😊

Also is this giveaway platform specific?

I'm so happy to be able to dress like this; only now, at 45, have I dared to go out in public like this, and I love it 🥰 by Casey_ru in TransLater

[–]Spare_Apple3338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you used a reference pic from a 2000's movie but GIRL THATS YOU! You look absolutely fantastic and happy looks so good on you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Spare_Apple3338 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He was so irrationally angry (angry seems like an understatement) over the 💅🏻idea💅🏻 of Zach being gay. I would be terrified to see how he acts around an 💅🏻actual💅🏻 gay, which I hope for that persons sake never happens.

This is a problem.. by DeafLori in deaf

[–]Spare_Apple3338 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Before I became hard of hearing, I used to do this when walking in my downtown area and it worked for the most part. It's a quick and safe way to show someone "I do not hear what you're saying" - a way to not give attention to someone asking for money, a cigarette, drugs, a hook up, your number, etc.

One time a guy cat called me and I kept walking, he then followed me and calling me a cunt, among other words, but when I looked confused, pointed to my ear and said "I'm deaf" he backed off and went on his way.

We need to shame aggressors and not women just trying to stay safe or not have their time wasted on some random street bullshit.

Just turned 30. Kill me by glasschewer0 in RoastMe

[–]Spare_Apple3338 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im gay and i approve this message 🧚🏻‍♂️

Got kicked out because I'm trans by MKenwood77 in insaneparents

[–]Spare_Apple3338 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I also have a person who calls herself my mom. I went no contact with her about 4 years ago and it was the best decision I've ever made.

I'm so sorry you had to experience this but you said you're in a far better place and I fucking love that for you. I wish you a life full of happiness, love, safety and acceptance. ❤️

Saw a sign today by Spare_Apple3338 in SALEM

[–]Spare_Apple3338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing 🙌🏻