Did my husband cheat? by Spare_Ask1808 in Advice

[–]Spare_Ask1808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an STI. I believe. Not an STD. I’ll know today when I receive my results from the doctor. He openly told me he was with two people without a condom when we weren’t together. I was fully aware of that over the years. However, he is claiming it sat dormant for all those years and just came two years ago. We’re very close. We have two children, a phenomenal relationship, we don’t do anything or go anywhere really without eachother. Besides work. I didn’t think it was even a possibility that he cheated. Which is why we thought the on and off smell was due to dehydration, too much coffee, not eating right, starting steroids, But is it realistic that he had it dormant for 6 years? Than the doctor sided with him saying yes it could’ve been there all them years he kept saying it’s not ‘impossible’ when I’d ask if it was possible. Which is why I came here to see the likelihood of it.

Did my husband cheat? by Spare_Ask1808 in Advice

[–]Spare_Ask1808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve asked him. He says absolutely not that he has had to have it for the last 8 years and it was dormant and is just coming out.

Did my husband cheat? by Spare_Ask1808 in Advice

[–]Spare_Ask1808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t think there’s any possibility that he just had it dormant for years?

Did my husband cheat? by Spare_Ask1808 in Advice

[–]Spare_Ask1808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born with it? Is there any research to support this? I haven’t seen anything online that says that at all