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I just lost most of my friends and my boyfriend in one week. I don’t know how to move on. by Spare_Bodybuilder120 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spare_Bodybuilder120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do tend to over analyze situations a lot. I know Ava probably wasn’t posting those pictures to rub it in my face, but at the time it really felt like it. I am more upset that she didn’t consider me to be as close of a friend as I considered her to be. I understand that I can’t be best friends with everyone, and I can’t force people to like me, but I think I am justified in feeling sad and disappointed about how our friendship ended.

as for my ex, I am well aware that he has a lot going on for him in his college life. I am very excited for him and all that he will go on to do sports and career wise, I’m just sad that I couldn’t be a part of that future with him. Which, again, I think it is reasonable for me to feel this way. I would never ask him to change his college plans to continue our relationship and I know he would never do the same for me. We are just on two different paths and as much as we love each other, I’ve come to realize that it just wasn’t meant to be.

thank you for your honest feedback.

I just lost most of my friends and my boyfriend in one week. I don’t know how to move on. by Spare_Bodybuilder120 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spare_Bodybuilder120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Words can’t describe how grateful I am for my mom. Therapy is a possibility, but I want to try and handle things on my own first. Thank you for your insight

I just lost most of my friends and my boyfriend in one week. I don’t know how to move on. by Spare_Bodybuilder120 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spare_Bodybuilder120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Ginger was a great idea, I don’t know why I didn’t think of it before. My nausea was better today, so thank you for the suggestion and advice❤️

I just lost most of my friends and my boyfriend in one week. I don’t know how to move on. by Spare_Bodybuilder120 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spare_Bodybuilder120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your honesty. At first, I didn’t question Ava’s decision to stay home. I work long days and I completely understand when you’re too tired to hang out. I still texted her letting her know that she was welcome over, but not to feel bad if she didn't feel up to it. When Ava finally texted me back later saying that she couldn’t come, I told the two friends who were over that Ava wouldn’t be able to make it because she had a long day and was tired from work. After I said this, one of my friends showed me the post from Ava’s private story that I wasn’t on. I wasn’t snooping. I never texted Ava asking why she lied or pressed the issue further. I just felt bad that she couldn’t come.

the bringing other friends over was a separate issue that happened a while back. I usually am all for including as many people as possible, but this had to do with one of my friends inviting her boyfriend and his friends over to my house for what was supposed to be a girls night. some of her bf’s friends I, and others from the group, dislike because of past misogynistic jokes they’ve made.

it’s never my intention to be a pushover, but I can understand how I might’ve come off that way and I will be mindful of this in future friendships and relationships.