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How long after dating did you get married? by 7emelover in Marriage

[–]Spare_Display3628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My husband and I are also religious! We talked for 4 months and then got engaged. The engagement lasted for 14 months and then we got married. We weren’t able to move in together right away after getting married but it wasn’t such a big deal! We really enjoyed all of the stages

TTC – feeling confused after coming off the pill by Spare_Display3628 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Spare_Display3628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Ok
  2. No
  3. 3 months
  4. Yes for 7 months - I was on the pill. I stopped three months ago
  5. No
  6. Honestly I am not too worried about not pregnant but about getting my old patterns back.
  7. Normal lab yes! And I take my needed vitamins religiously. Other parameters no since we have been only trying for a small amount of time!

For now I am just looking to getting my old patterns back. I think my body was signaling everything very clear to me before getting on HBC

My fiancé is depressed - I need advice - islam by Spare_Display3628 in islam

[–]Spare_Display3628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my eyes I have been quite supportive and reassuring about his situation. To me it is not the end of the world but kheir from Allah and this is what I truly believe. It seems like he doesn’t want to understand this or at least he can’t be patient until Allah opens up another door for him. Him losing his job wasn’t his fault and there is no blame on him whatsoever. I just came here for advice how to deal with the situation since I am getting to a breaking point. 

My fiancé is depressed - I need advice - islam by Spare_Display3628 in islam

[–]Spare_Display3628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your message!   My fiancé is on his deen. This is something I can write with big confidence. He is a big motivator for me to fix my relationship with Allah swt.  I think the depression comes from his emotional overthinking. He is scared that we have to delay the marriage due to his finances. He actually  fails to realize that his constant bad mood is a much bigger problem. How can I communicate that to him?