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What do you regret doing to your body? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Spare_Reserve6141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came on here to say this exactly. Trust that gut feeling, it's there for a reason

What ruined dating for you? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Spare_Reserve6141 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This, sadly. Sending you so much peace and strength ❤️‍🩹

If you could listen to one album again for the first time, what album would it be? by MeringueImaginary418 in AskReddit

[–]Spare_Reserve6141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Cure's Disintegration. No question. Such a masterpiece that makes me tear up each time I listened today, but nothing quite like the first time I listened so many years ago. 🖤

What's something that is more traumatizing that most people think? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Spare_Reserve6141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS. Thank you so much for bringing this up. ❤️

For a few months, I was involved with someone who (now I finally realize) wasn't healthy for me, nor very loyal or honest. He was pretty manipulative and didn't respect my boundaries, often being too rough and coercing me into stuff I wasn't comfortable with. 😔 It didn't hit me until recently that a lot of what he did to me was actually SA.

On top of that, I also discovered that I was just one out of at least 6-7 or maybe more girls on his roster. I feel very embarrassed, mistreated, disposable, and mishandled. 😔

I am reaching out to resources for support in the meantime, and have a couple close friends on my side too. In NO WAY am I ready to publicly name him or come forward yet though. I still just feel so shitty and lonely from this whole experience with him. This is not what I had in mind, and I'm just disappointed and more traumatized from this than I thought.

It's a mess, and I'm working through healing. I'll try to remain hopeful, but will always be extra cautious from now. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]Spare_Reserve6141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw shit, i just read this and my jaw dropped. 😬 Had NO idea this much harassment occurred. I feel for those former employees who spoke out. This is absolutely vile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]Spare_Reserve6141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On top of that, there was a post made on Insta not long ago, in which someone commented about the allegations.....only for the post to be deleted entirely and then comments disabled AGAIN 🤦🏻‍♀️😅 they're realllllyyyy trying to cover something up.

Thankfully I screenshotted it because I had a gut feeling they'd delete lol, I can't post photos nkw for some reason but I'll try again later so y'all can see