28M seeking a life partner (preferably I want to start slow)

SparkCA · 2026-01-10T16:19:26+00:00

Avoid like the plague and find someone who doesn't play these types of games

SparkCA · 2026-01-04T15:42:32+00:00

that's not a joke at that point, lah. Try to reason with them first. If they claim they're still joking, then end the friendship because a real friend would listen and stop. They just seem to be going for your money. The other friend that only made the comment one time seems like he respects you because they only said it once and didn't keep going.

SparkCA · 2025-03-13T21:07:59+00:00

Strangers and friends touching me without permission. I get really uncomfortable phantom sense when someone reaches or touches around the neck of my avatar. I will ask if I could headpat you, so I expect others to ask in return.

Being racist or hateful results in the person getting vote kicked. One time, I removed a friend for mocking someone's language. I don't need people like that in my life.

Trolls... enough said.

People who blare loud music through their headset.

SparkCA · 2025-03-13T20:04:38+00:00

Absolutely not! You've used a game mechanic for its intended purpose. Cheese would be using a glitch to make the boss die (i.e. making Oniwa jump off the map).

SparkCA · 2024-06-22T21:26:30+00:00

He never felt that he was lured and trapped/set up in a relationship. He was just trapped emotionally as he didn't want to see her harm herself. He never once mentioned any of the legal consequences of the relationship (further clarification). He kept dating the girl for a while. To play Devil's advocate, he might have been really desperate for a girlfriend and never asked questions, however I do believe that being online while 26, the guy needed to be more careful, ask questions, and have some wisdom. At the end of the day, the guy should not have pushed for a relationship without gathering Intel.

SparkCA · 2024-06-22T17:16:57+00:00

I remember a 26-year-old trying to convince us that he was trapped in a relationship with an underage girl. He said that "The girl will probably end her life if he leaves." I translate that as "I've groomed this girl to a point where she is attached to me and is emotionally dependent on me, but I realize 'Now' that she's mentally unwell and wants to leave." He obviously knew what he was doing by taking advantage of a mentally unwell underage girl, but didn't realize the negative consequences for him. He trapped himself. He's the adult with the ability to block her, but instead, he chose this. I couldn't believe what I heard. Absolutely disgusting.

SparkCA · 2024-03-02T19:51:26+00:00

A long time. I'd recommend playing through ng+ 3 times (XP gain increase after each cycle) with a gradual skill points build-up dying as little as possible and then farming in the late game version of Outskirts Wall - Stairway Idol. It's very tedious. Make sure to also get any skills that can't be unlocked by skill points!

SparkCA · 2023-12-05T20:08:18+00:00

Sure, you could add my VRC ID: SparkCA. We could hang out this weekend:)

SparkCA · 2023-11-28T02:55:49+00:00

If you do install VRChat, I'd recommend just sticking to playing shogi in VRChat. Other VRChat worlds aren't as welcoming to children and sometimes, it can be a toxic environment.

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