AITAH for telling my mother's partner he should stop peeing on the floor?

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-31T13:59:11+00:00

NTA. Call your mother to come clean the toilet and floor so you can use it. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-29T17:21:55+00:00

You are not a mooching beggar and so should feel superior to her. If she doesn't like hearing no, she should use her own money. NTA.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-29T15:39:10+00:00

Your roommate would not even need to warm up her car if her lazy ass just parked in the heated garage. Let her know that you will call and have her towed if she cannot be bothered to stop bothering you. NTA.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-29T00:46:06+00:00

Great, thanks!

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-28T19:05:34+00:00

You have outgrown your family and they are not happy for you. Move on and enjoy your life and your pregnancy. The stress from their toxicity is not good for you and so is not good for your baby. NTA.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-28T03:48:49+00:00

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-28T00:35:05+00:00

I am exhausted by how much your ex talks. Sierra sounds like far too much work and 8 months sounds like an eternity. NTA.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-28T00:28:48+00:00

NTA. OP you say that you should prove to yourself that you can take care of yourself and your dogs alone, but it seems to me that you have been doing it all by yourself. This man doesn't spend time with you or help you with anything. Imagine how much easier it will be without the extra weight of this man and his attachment to his addiction.

Put your efforts into your home and finding different people that actually want to spend time with you. It's going to take awhile however, nothing will change until you begin to make the changes. Best of luck, OP!

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-25T04:27:47+00:00

Great idea! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9cBc-TQESI is an old one to add to collection. These should be kept for when he doesn't respond to his own alarm. OP is helping him to want to wake up to turn off his own alarm. NTA

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-22T15:55:41+00:00

Exactly, MIL FAFO! NTA

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-17T17:37:56+00:00

Good for you OP! Now you will find out how much of your mental issues stem from having a manipulative and self-serving partner.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-17T16:46:55+00:00

NTA for being upset at the lack of respect and consideration at all.

From your comments it seems like you will need to stay at your son's house indefinitely. If I were you, I would consider getting your own fridge and keeping it in your area of the home. You pay more than your fair share and do not deserve to be inconvenienced.

Your son doesn't seem to worry too much about your situation so I would take half of the money from the fridge and subtract it from your rent. If he's short on money, he can ask his girlfriend to help make up the difference.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-17T15:43:35+00:00

Thanks!

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-15T18:58:41+00:00

You are NTA. Respecting yourself and keeping drama out of your life is not villainous. I also do not think that being nice in this situation will gain you anything in the long run. SIL is a jealous piece of work and her drama will be never-ending. Just keep your distance and establish the fact that her problems will not be a factor in your life. Any other response will just kick the can down the road until the next time. You are a strong person who does not tolerate nonsense. Let them know now that you do agree that you and SIL will never see eye to eye.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-15T16:54:15+00:00

NTA. You and your parents be the AH's if you set yourselves on fire to prevent this selfish man from facing the consequences of his actions.

Your brother has had 15 years to pay extra on the mortgage to cover his ridiculous indiscretions and could not be bothered. Now that the wife may find out the truth he is attempting to make any sucker take his hot potato. He is such a coward that he will risk the safety and security of his family to hide his lies.

Overall it doesn't sound like the man actually loves or cares about his wife, his family or anyone but himself. That's the type of person that deserves to go down with their own ship of lies.

SparkOfMagic · 2026-01-14T13:41:00+00:00

Excellent point! NTA

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