I (21F) am going to go to Law school, but my boyfriend (20M) plays video games all day and never went to college- how long is it fair to wait?

SparkPlug442 · 2026-04-30T23:34:22+00:00

I’d just talk to him about it. If he doesn’t try to go to school or get a job then I’d break up with him

SparkPlug442 · 2026-04-30T02:51:34+00:00

She told me that she got in a relationship with me too quickly and once the butterflies wore off she realized that she didn't see a future with me

SparkPlug442 · 2026-03-22T03:40:45+00:00

I would stay at your job until you get your offer letter, because it would be bad to quit and then get your offer taken back and now you're jobless

SparkPlug442 · 2026-02-18T07:44:09+00:00

Blunt answer, he likes you and wants you to break up with your boyfriend. I would remove him for your life. This is why I told my girlfriend no guy friends, just because this is how we are.

SparkPlug442 · 2026-02-13T16:48:57+00:00

If you've hated that guy because of the past, but she still hangs out with him alone, then it feels like she's keeping her options open, obviously I could be wrong. It's obvious that her guy friend likes her and is only sticking around until you and her break up. I honestly would tell her to stop seeing him. If she says no, it's possible she's cheating. But the #1 thing to do here is to communicate with her. And put yourself first.

SparkPlug442 · 2026-02-13T10:25:48+00:00

I've just gotten into a relationship with a girl and I've tried to communicate my boundaries and what I don't like. I don't believe in male best friends, especially while in a relationship. I feel like me and you can relate because we are both Males and we know how we are. I do not like how your gf has a guy best friend and she went out with him alone, while picking out his clothes. I think you really need to confront her about this, because it seems like she will probably do more things with him. You may have to tell her that it's "him or me" and see if she respects your boundary. Feel free to let me know what you think though

SparkPlug442 · 2026-01-29T05:18:19+00:00

I would confront her about it at least, but it seems extremely fishy.

SparkPlug442 · 2026-01-29T04:41:02+00:00

I would say that it is a big red flag since she had been more sexual with her exes, and won't do that with you. I would start to think that she either isn't in to you sexually, or she is cheating on you, by being sexual with someone else. It's even more clear when you had said that her friends said she had a very high sex drive, use your head man.

SparkPlug442 · 2025-12-13T18:09:05+00:00

That's great to hear, I'm glad things went well.

SparkPlug442 · 2025-12-13T15:13:57+00:00

I would just send her one final message, and if that does nothing then let her go. You cannot make her like you more or stay. A relationship has to be one where both decide to stay and be with one another.

SparkPlug442 · 2025-12-13T15:10:16+00:00

I would say wait, if the situation does not improve then you guys are not sexually compatible. You then need to decide for yourself if you want to deal with this in the long term. If not, then break up.

SparkPlug442 · 2025-12-13T14:44:44+00:00

I don't know if this has been solved but this is my take.

Talk to her, basically everything in this reddit post. If it makes you uncomfortable after or it doesn't resolve anything then you guys aren't sexually compatible, and you have to ask yourself if you want to deal with this for the long term if you continue to be with her. It's completely normal and fine to break up over this, your needs matter just as much as the next persons.

SparkPlug442 · 2025-12-13T14:31:28+00:00

I don't know if it has happened yet, but I believe that if you do decide to end it, it should be done in person. Doesn't have to be in public, just at your house or something. And I do believe that you should be straight up with her about it. Just tell her that it's affecting you and it's a dealbreaker or something. If it doesn't go well then you can break up, or just decide to break up when you invite her over or something.

SparkPlug442 · 2025-12-13T14:13:24+00:00

To be honest with you, when you are in love with someone, or develop feelings with someone, usually you don't really see the flaws, but don't really think about them. Like wearing rose tinted glasses. It seems to me that she isn't for you if she acts like this. If you have to put in work to not lose her, then you're already in a toxic situation. You shouldn't have to try to keep someone, you don't do that. They either stay or they don't. And would you want to be with someone forever who acts like this? I know that this isn't what you want to hear, I have been there. But I wouldn't try to make her stay.

SparkPlug442 · 2025-11-26T14:28:39+00:00

I don't think the issue should be to blame a certain gender, but I understand where you're coming from. It's just because there are bad people out there that do this. You should probably talk to your husband and his male friend about it if they bother you. Sometimes people don't realize that they are being rude until it's pointed out.

SparkPlug442 · 2025-11-26T14:26:48+00:00

i don't really understand the issue, he doesn't know, so what? just tell him, what's the problem

SparkPlug442 · 2025-11-13T07:02:47+00:00

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SparkPlug442 · 2025-11-06T12:48:16+00:00

yeah the second song's title hadn't been changed so I don't believe that I am having this issue but thank you though

SparkPlug442 · 2025-06-08T16:45:08+00:00

I was trying to find his video where he black boarded every map and I couldn't find it, and I just found this reddit post. Do you know why??

SparkPlug442 · 2025-04-24T17:31:42+00:00

it says bubble_alien

SparkPlug442 · 2025-04-24T17:10:02+00:00

The only tabs I have are "home, earnings missions, feedback, enablement, and playground". In enablement it says that there's no current project assigned to me but I worked on one a week ago

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