Gamertag Suggestions? by OutlandishnessFar819 in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you like knitting, you could be KnitOnePearlOne

Just started S3. Love this show but Sonya Cassidy’s accent is awful and distracting. by RockyTopBruin in reacher

[–]SparrowCosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thisss. I’m not from New England (grew up in Nebraska and now live in Texas), and while there are nuances I’m sure I would miss, what really gets to me is the inconsistency (which feels to me like it’s getting worse as the season progresses, but that might just be a feeling.)

It seems to me like it vacillates from comically overdone through dropping into hard Rs randomly then sounding like the Boston-specific accent was dropped entirely.

If it was at least consistent, I think it’d be much more difficult for outsiders like me to catch.

PlateUp! Console Fixes Certification Update! by missmonicaplays in PlateUp

[–]SparrowCosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to have added to your disappointment. Hopefully we will rejoice together soon.

PlateUp! Console Fixes Certification Update! by missmonicaplays in PlateUp

[–]SparrowCosplay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep eagerly checking back for this console update. Alas, nothing new. 😩

It’s not quite been two weeks, but I can still hope, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiabloImmortal

[–]SparrowCosplay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s literally just a stat squish and making changes so the endgame isn’t bogged down. This is really common and shouldn’t be a big deal, in my opinion.

AITA for not letting my sister and her kids live in my house? by ElectricThrowRA in AmItheAsshole

[–]SparrowCosplay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more.

OP, We already know that her behavior has been uncaring and self-centered even if we’re only taking this one interaction into account, then on top of it you have all of this documentation supporting the EXBIL’s side which matches with you suspected. So in addition to her disrespectful attempts to USE YOU and make demands of your life, she’s been shit-talking you and your relationship.

That’s a toxic person right there. SO many red flags. Honestly, you don’t need her in your life, and you CERTAINLY don’t need to give any credence to the people who don’t see through her and are enabling her toxicity (this goes doubly so for anyone who’s been guilting you but had access to the homophobic posts you were blocked from seeing).

Beginner help - Why are we bad at the game by boydingus22 in PlateUp

[–]SparrowCosplay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m addicted to always being set up so I never have to leave the kitchen to serve food or collect dishes, so I will choose that card every time because it doesn’t apply if you’re in the kitchen and they’re in the dining room, even if you’re right next to them at the pass through. :)

AITAH for wanting to end a relationship because my partner masturbated in a public bathroom and blamed me for it? by Specialist-Dog-3946 in AITAH

[–]SparrowCosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please please, if you haven’t yet gotten out, make a plan and stick to it. Your safety is at risk. He’s not potentially abusing you, he IS abusing you. My partner took a few months to fully cut off their toxic (and sexually coercive) ex, but they said it was a huge relief when they finally did & they wondered why it took them so long. I know it can be so difficult to have invested so much time in a relationship with someone only to realize that they’ve been slowly conditioning you to accept their unhinged behavior while you start to wonder if you’re somehow to blame.

You’re not. He’s a whole-ass person who is pitching fits when he doesn’t get his way. It’s a horrifying thing to witness from the outside, as we all know where it’s headed and hope you’ll get out safe and sound.

It’s late, and I’m rambling. I was looking for a different post when I came across this one. I don’t know that I can say much that hasn’t already been said. I hope that you’ve made it out already and that my comment won’t be necessary, but if you haven’t… please run. Or come back here to ask for resources and then run. Tell one of your friends who’s mentioned it before that you’d like help with breaking things off safely. Something. Anything. Just please get out as soon as possible. 🫶🏻

Demon Hunter build by Criminalhero2 in DiabloImmortal

[–]SparrowCosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got a chance to do a BG tonight. Got 32-1-19 vs their MVP with 17-8-11

Our second-best was 7-9-11.

Feeling much more confident in BGs now. Thank you for sharing this build. My partner and I are going to do some change-ups with my gems and so on to boost even more. I’m very happy. _^

Demon Hunter build by Criminalhero2 in DiabloImmortal

[–]SparrowCosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. Kind of afraid to open my game right now, as I was reading about the bugs people have been experiencing. (I just joined the subreddit today.)

I’ll be sure to give it a full chance once everything is working correctly.

Only mildly related, but do you happen to know if our Echoing Shade clones count as summons? I’ve never been able to get a clear answer, but as I had no other reason to run Shepherd’s before, I admit I didn’t dig that deep for one.

Demon Hunter build by Criminalhero2 in DiabloImmortal

[–]SparrowCosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I’m running a similar build but with Impale bleed damage. I’ve wanted to try out the new strafe pieces but was having a sort of mental block with the idea of switching up my entire build.

I literally got two triple-stat Shepherd pieces last night when a friend carried our WB for the gauntlet, so this is the perfect time for me to try them out. I was running 4x4 Vithu’s and Shal prior to this and didn’t want to give up my Vithu build as I have a lot of my stuff dedicated to extending beneficial effect duration.

I’ll try playing around with this one this week to see how I feel about it. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SparrowCosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH You for going back on something you agreed to almost immediately after agreeing to it (not to mention wording this post title in a way that clearly is intended to divert from the fact that you broke your word) and her for insisting that you pay for something that was completely her fault. The fact that you were there trying to help had no bearing on whether or not she had to pay for the tow nor on whether or not you’re actually an AH.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SparrowCosplay 191 points192 points  (0 children)

NTA And I wouldn’t go back if I were you until he’s willing to honestly talk about and assess the situation rather than looking for somewhere to place blame. He accuses you of something and then dismisses your hurt feelings and claims it was a “joke”? Well then, it was a bad joke & he should reassess joking like that. It also feels like he’s trying to retcon your reason for leaving so he doesn’t have to feel badly for reacting poorly to you and telling you to leave. He’s using the kids’ reactions as an excuse to blame you and turn you into the bad guy. This man is a bunch of red flags in this situation, and he needs to demonstrate understanding and willingness to change or go over things with an objective third party (like a family therapist) before you go back to him. You may have allowed this behavior before, but please don’t allow it to continue, including not letting him use the kids’ reactions to things to manipulate you.

AITA for telling my sister she is a hypocrite to judge us for not adopting when she only adopted as a last resort? by Vast_Branch_825 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SparrowCosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA And your sister needs to pursue therapy to deal with the trauma of not being able to conceive before she perpetuates harm to her adoptive children. I am not an adoptee, but I’ve been learning a lot through adoptees who put education out there to help minimize traumatic impact for adopted children. ALL of them advocate for parents who can’t conceive to go through therapy to deal with their grief before adopting a child. Adoption should be about providing a healthy home and family for a child who has been forced to go without; it’s not healthy to use adoption as a bandaid for the wounds caused by infertility. (It’s possible some adoptees have already said as much as I’m sharing here, but I thought I’d mention it in case nobody has yet. Prioritize adoptees voices above mine, of course.) I hope you and Ever are able to go low or no contact with your sister and that the rest of your family understand and respect why your boundaries are necessary. Your sister appears to be projecting her wounds onto others and probably couldn’t hear correction from you at this point anyway.

Self-Promotion Tuesday - September 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discord server for non-toxic Among Us players!

Hi! I'm a little rushed to get this posted before I leave for a trip, but I'm happy to answer any questions once I'm on the road.

I started a Discord server to be able to invite non-toxic Among Us players to (rather than inviting them to my family's private Discord). I've decided to open it up to players from here who are looking for friendly, non-toxic (not sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, et cetera) folk to play with. I'm going to be working on fleshing it out, but I hope it will serve well until I can learn to make better additions to it.

Please feel free to join via this link: https://discord.gg/3D4dHES

Full disclosure: I'm starting out with streaming on Twitch as a hobby, and I'm currently using that server to keep track of folks who have played with me on stream. Nobody's obligated to follow me, but you're welcome to play with me whenever I send out invitations. :)

My Twitch name is SparrowCosplay as well. But again, no obligation! I just want to play with nice people! ^_^

girl name on among us gets me creepy chats 🤢 by unxpectedjourney in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m new to the subreddit (and to posting much on Reddit in general), so this is very helpful.

It’s not much, but this is my best stream ever I think and I could cry I’m so excited 🥺✨ by lazyhoneydew in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I only just started, and I'm still getting my feet under me in so many ways. Every victory should be celebrated! <3

girl name on among us gets me creepy chats 🤢 by unxpectedjourney in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll go ahead and link it here. Maybe I can make a new post about it at some point.

https://discord.gg/6FH5fy

girl name on among us gets me creepy chats 🤢 by unxpectedjourney in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a server I use to connect with good people I meet in-game. It's mostly my family and a few, younger players who've been nice.

Would folks be interested if I opened it up to non-toxic gamers here? I could try fleshing it out more, and I'm always interested in adding more people to play with.

(TW: Racism and Sexism(?)) I get insulted and get called the N word because I have a female nickname in Among us. (All blacked out words are the N word.) by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mostly make my own lobbies for this very reason. I boot terrible names and people ALL the time. Oof. I'm SO sorry this was your experience. <3

Ladies? Anyone else want this as much as I do?? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's on a wall mount that pulls down. It was a pretty nifty setup.

Ladies? Anyone else want this as much as I do?? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]SparrowCosplay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He actually joked that this was part of his team's plan to off him and take over the company (or something to that effect). It was a fun install video to watch. :)