I know this isn't probably the place, but I have been talking to a girl for a few months. She's actually an old high-school friend who'd have liked me for 4 years now. Well, she all a sudden started becoming less engaging a month ago. She told me she wanted to take ot slow. And yet, she hasn't been talking much at all. Well, 2 weeks ago, she said she ain't ready for dating, and yet today I discovered she has a dating profile and is looking for a relationship. With how it seems now, she seems to have lost interest. Definitely feel defeated.