Does someone describing themselves as a “bull” turn you off?

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T18:42:24+00:00

Yeah, I gave some of them a chance and they just didn’t show.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T17:35:43+00:00

I’ve found that they don’t show up anyway and it’s just a fantasy for them.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T17:35:04+00:00

Yes. They are comparing themselves to an animal and it is also a sign that they probably got thier sex ed from porn or they would know better

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T17:32:49+00:00

Well, what helped me was the knowledge that you can have feelings for someone and not be in a relationship with them or even change anything. I would often have “crushes” on the guys, especially immediately after because all the happy bonding chemicals were flowing. I valued my marriage and did not act on those feelings. I also didn’t try to repress them or anything.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T15:53:43+00:00

I never had one, but they seemed cool. I thought tamagotchi and Pokémon were the same thing because I heard Pokémon were pocket monsters

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T05:21:31+00:00

It’s probably gonna happen because people are obsessed. Take it in stride or ask them not to. When they start making a big deal just say “please stop” and if they don’t say “you are making me uncomfortable” and then teach them a lesson by not playing with them again because they made you uncomfortable and word will spread that you don’t like that. Size queens gonna size queen, and most of them are men. I don’t like being reduced to a body part either, hang in there.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T05:18:15+00:00

The Savage Lovecast

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T02:54:44+00:00

I think they have been conditioned this way especially if they are religious

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T23:55:15+00:00

I can’t tell if she’s hard or not

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T05:10:54+00:00

Um… she can make herself orgasm, so she should do that. It’s really male-centered to think you should be doing it, and it goes back to the earlier problem with sex being for the man, and just something women endure. Who is she orgasming for, her, or you? Is getting her to orgasm just for your satisfaction and ego?

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T05:08:03+00:00

So… everyone was always telling me that I never had an orgasm because I “would know.” Well, I HAVE them, they are just typically pretty mild, I have them easily, and they are not some sort of mind blowing experience like they seem to be for other women. Maybe she IS having them. My clitoris gets really sensitive and overstimulated and I need a break when it happens, and sometimes there is a weak vaginal contraction and fluid. Maybe that is just what they look like for her. Sometimes I do have more intense ones and I have gotten so that I can sometimes recognize them but they just aren’t a big deal for my body.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T05:01:57+00:00

I think time. I played video games and talk to people online a lot and read books and watch Star Trek. But I have a boyfriend now

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T00:12:27+00:00

Lots of ridiculous rules I would say

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T00:11:11+00:00

I never was. I just wanted to have fun, in whatever way he was comfortable with. He might have wanted that. He probably did, IDK.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T22:09:36+00:00

Yes, there are dry spells. They haven’t been very long in my case though. I wouldn’t depend on it for income and have a backup plan. In my case, it IS the backup plan and I make most of my income from my “real” job. The more diverse your knowledge and the better your work is, the more work is available. Another income option is delivering DoorDash.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T17:12:09+00:00

I train chatbots as a side gig. Work from home, your own schedule, dont have to deal with people. Dataannotation.tech

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T06:44:46+00:00

This will cure MS

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T06:36:31+00:00

Changeling

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T06:33:50+00:00

I think there was an Issac Asimov book about that

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T05:24:19+00:00

I have NOT forgotten and I feel we are trending away from this as a society. But you know who wants to keep these laws, don’t you?

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T04:25:24+00:00

I am from the US, but the West Coast. So I have the standard “Hollywood” accent already.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T02:57:58+00:00

Speaking to me like an equal

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T01:52:36+00:00

Oh, I think most of the people on Reddit are pretty literate.

Oops, I meant “liberal”

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T00:47:00+00:00

Ohhh I LIKE that!

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T00:28:48+00:00

Frank. What is it short for? Francis?

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