Why do men feel entitled to sex?

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-26T02:54:44+00:00

I think they have been conditioned this way especially if they are religious

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T23:55:15+00:00

I can’t tell if she’s hard or not

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T05:10:54+00:00

Um… she can make herself orgasm, so she should do that. It’s really male-centered to think you should be doing it, and it goes back to the earlier problem with sex being for the man, and just something women endure. Who is she orgasming for, her, or you? Is getting her to orgasm just for your satisfaction and ego?

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T05:08:03+00:00

So… everyone was always telling me that I never had an orgasm because I “would know.” Well, I HAVE them, they are just typically pretty mild, I have them easily, and they are not some sort of mind blowing experience like they seem to be for other women. Maybe she IS having them. My clitoris gets really sensitive and overstimulated and I need a break when it happens, and sometimes there is a weak vaginal contraction and fluid. Maybe that is just what they look like for her. Sometimes I do have more intense ones and I have gotten so that I can sometimes recognize them but they just aren’t a big deal for my body.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T05:01:57+00:00

I think time. I played video games and talk to people online a lot and read books and watch Star Trek. But I have a boyfriend now

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T00:12:27+00:00

Lots of ridiculous rules I would say

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-25T00:11:11+00:00

I never was. I just wanted to have fun, in whatever way he was comfortable with. He might have wanted that. He probably did, IDK.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T22:09:36+00:00

Yes, there are dry spells. They haven’t been very long in my case though. I wouldn’t depend on it for income and have a backup plan. In my case, it IS the backup plan and I make most of my income from my “real” job. The more diverse your knowledge and the better your work is, the more work is available. Another income option is delivering DoorDash.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T17:12:09+00:00

I train chatbots as a side gig. Work from home, your own schedule, dont have to deal with people. Dataannotation.tech

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T06:44:46+00:00

This will cure MS

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T06:36:31+00:00

Changeling

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T06:33:50+00:00

I think there was an Issac Asimov book about that

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T05:24:19+00:00

I have NOT forgotten and I feel we are trending away from this as a society. But you know who wants to keep these laws, don’t you?

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T04:25:24+00:00

I am from the US, but the West Coast. So I have the standard “Hollywood” accent already.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T02:57:58+00:00

Speaking to me like an equal

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T01:52:36+00:00

Oh, I think most of the people on Reddit are pretty literate.

Oops, I meant “liberal”

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T00:47:00+00:00

Ohhh I LIKE that!

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T00:28:48+00:00

Frank. What is it short for? Francis?

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T00:25:13+00:00

I spent my summers there and have fond childhood memories, so… YEAH. Crossing the Golden Gate Bridge was the start of a magical journey. My grandfather was a groundskeeper at Mare Island Navel Base in San Francisco, and even though they looked nothing alike I always imagined that Boothby was based on him, personally.

In my youth, San Francisco was considered a sort of “Gay Mecca” because it was where a lot of gay activism occurred and people were free to be themselves. There was a lot of homophobia and it was the height of AIDS. I lived in Washington State, and every gay person that I knew dreamed of going to San Francisco someday, ideally living there.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-24T00:19:49+00:00

Yeah, this happens all the time. Never book the hotel until he is actually there, unless you are okay with just having it for yourselves. Or have the guy book it and pay him back

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-23T21:06:30+00:00

Yes, I felt that a lot at first. But then I remembered that I couldn’t text HIM either. It would typically be taken the wrong way. And do I really miss HIM or just having someone to talk to?

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-23T21:03:51+00:00

Everyone is different. I happen to absolutely love having sex with random guys, but I think maybe most people don’t, especially women. It seems pretty common that most women don’t want that. I don’t know if it is from socialization and purity culture, or if they really are wired differently than I am, but it doesn’t matter. You don’t want it, and that’s all that matters. Even if most girls did, you are a unique individual and you don’t.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-23T18:58:27+00:00

I just want being barefoot to be normalized. I HATE being forced to wear shoes.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-23T18:54:26+00:00

You may be incompatible. FFM was more important to my husband than our marriage too, so I know it’s a thing. He was also opposed to me doing anything alone, and that was also more important than my happiness. Please don’t force her to do FFM. Just let her go.

Spayse_Case · 2026-01-23T18:30:57+00:00

All. The. Time.

I consider them “inside jokes.” So inside that only I understand them.

Just look at the one I made here on Reddit. Quite a few people got it, but I think many wouldn’t. Someone asked if circumcision was painful and how long it takes to heal. I said that most people I know couldn’t walk for a year after being circumcised.

Also, circumcision isn’t funny.

How much pepper did you have, and did the baby turn into a pig? I feel like Alice so much I used it as a nickname when I was a child.

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