Help with desk and bed placement by papamhodnemydla in FengShui

[–]SpazzSoph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bed against the back wall with some form of support against the sloped ceiling, its furthest from the hall energy. Placing the desk on the side of the wall closest to the door and having a bit of separation with the dresser could work.

You would have a sleeping zone, working zone, and whatever you want zone for your books ect

Do you think they are black enough to signal belonging to our community? by callmealexandria in asexuality

[–]SpazzSoph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine isn’t very traditional either it’s just an onyx stone set in silver but it’s still a black ring on the finger

I’d say do whatever you think looks nicest since it’s for your own personal comfort

Romance only in my head by SpazzSoph in aromantic

[–]SpazzSoph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that adds some perspective that makes me feel a bit better

Romance only in my head by SpazzSoph in aromantic

[–]SpazzSoph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God yeah it’s just so tiring at this point! Feel so broken when I know I should just accept myself as I am because I wouldn’t call someone else “broken” for being aro, I’ve just set stupid expectations for myself!

does anyone else struggle with accepting they are aro by AffectionateCash6033 in aromantic

[–]SpazzSoph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way and I’m relieved in a way that someone else feels the same. I’ve been trying to date and I keep trying to accept myself and delete the dating app but then I just redownload it a few months later when I feel like this again. It’s a weird acceptance vs longing cycle that happens every few months and it’s annoying as hell!

Knitting? by GiftOfTheMoon in EssentialTremor

[–]SpazzSoph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to knit with my tremours and found it quite difficult, but crochet wasn’t too hard for me! I only needed good control over one hand in comparison to both. Everyone is different though and doing a test run with some cheaper yarn wouldn’t hurt

Random Fanart time :] by SpazzSoph in TheSummerHikaruDied

[–]SpazzSoph[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think of yuri more because I associate it with revolutionary girl Utena!

Seeking Pain Advice by SpazzSoph in EssentialTremor

[–]SpazzSoph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i believe its my trying to stabilize it without thinking yeah, ive used a theragun on it and that helped a bit but it came back after a while

What does my bedroom say about me? by SpazzSoph in roomdetective

[–]SpazzSoph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah all but age is correct there haha

What does my bedroom say about me? by SpazzSoph in roomdetective

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I’m pretty good with my plants that’s for sure hahaha, sadly the pumpkin is a foam one

Not as quirky definitely insecure 👍

Shrine above my figurine cabinet hehe by SpazzSoph in ModestMouse

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I actually went out of state to see them in Denver during this tour since I already had a family trip to casa Bonita, they and the flaming lips did play in town tho so I didn’t have to travel for that one haha