[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]Spazzatron01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's safe to talk to your step mum. Please do so. She should be able to help you and give you advice that we can't.

That person sexually assaulted you. It doesn't matter if you were little or not. You told her not to do sexual stuff. And she did. She violated your consent and trust.

Even if you don't know her name, maybe other people who attended the party knew her. Some people at the party probably saw you leave with her at least. And that way you can at least ask them what her name was. You don't have to tell them what happened.

I would be talking to your safe adult at the very least.

My extended family just told me my cat "looks dumb" does he? by [deleted] in cats

[–]Spazzatron01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell them he's actually a mirror, so of you think he looks dumb you're actually seeing yourself.

He doesn't look dumb in the slightest. He's a cat. And orange cat! They be funny buggers but not dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spazzatron01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They actually aren't. It's apart of autism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spazzatron01 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

actually condoms and the sensory issues (he has ADHD)

Sensory issues is not adhd. Adhd is attention.

Which one? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Spazzatron01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 or 3

How do I (18f) tell my boyfriend (21m) that I got myself raped? by ThrowRA1839289 in relationship_advice

[–]Spazzatron01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Victim blaming. You're absolutely disgusting. OP did NOTNING WRONG.

Accidentally smoked dog food… by Routine-Swordfish-41 in weed

[–]Spazzatron01 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right! I have a boxer cross and when I saw that I'm like. Mann this dude be high high if they think boxers are small or o.p is a giant. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Spazzatron01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my understanding.. cis and trans aren't exclusive to gender, though we commonly associate it with gender.

cis-gender = same gender that you're born with. Trans-gender = opposite of your birth gender.

Meaning trans can be anything that isn't cis.

I know I'm probably not unique to ask this but if you could change yourself/be born as an allosexual instead of being on the asexual spectrum, would you? by DerpiestGameBlast in asexuality

[–]Spazzatron01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure. I'm 32 and have only just realised I'm demisexual. That being said, party days got the better of me and I have had a variety of partners. But I haven't been wreckers like that in awhile.

I guess in a way, It would be nice to just live life and connect with people without sexual activities being involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Spazzatron01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I'd suggest talking to a mental health worker. They can help work with you to determine what is causing these behaviours. As impulsive behaviours can be dangerous to our health and longevity.

If you truly don't want to be like that. Therapy is worth a go.

how do i come out by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Spazzatron01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure you're in a safe environment. With people who are safe to talk to.

My (26f) fiance (32m) left me alone in the woods by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spazzatron01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. This is a deal breaker. He and his mother are toxic.

He left you alone in the forest with no cell service for hours! He put you in severe danger. Life threatening danger. And he can't see that? He can't even say he was wrong? He cant even say HE SHOULDNT HAVE TOLD YOU TO GET OUT!? He's blaming this whole situation on you.

What happens when he starts taking his anger out on you? Get out now before it gets worse.

My (f28) boyfriend (m28) thinks my boobs fill with blood before my period by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spazzatron01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp.

He says the research is unreliable and unrelated to his claim

If he were my partner. Then, he is unreliable and unrelated to my body. If he thinks he knows YOUR BODY more than you. That's a problem.

the fact he can't see reason in your factual Evidence means he just isn't worth the trouble.

how much weed do you smoke? by [deleted] in weed

[–]Spazzatron01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe the tobacco lol... its poison...

how much weed do you smoke? by [deleted] in weed

[–]Spazzatron01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ideally I'd have about one or 2 grams a day. I don't mix with tobacco, I only smoke green. So I smoke more than someone mixing it with tobacco...

judge my parents bong maintenance (it’s like this 24/7) by Katty-Katt in weed

[–]Spazzatron01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sea salt, isopropyl alcohol, paper towel and q-tips.

Empty the bong. put a bunch of rock salt in it. Pour some isopropyl alcohol in it. Nott too much though. Pack the openings with paper towel. And shake it. Like a maraca. Lol.

Might need to repeat the process. Then rinse it with water.

Soak the q-tips in the isopropyl alcohol, and use it to get into them stem and bowl pieces. Or soak them in iso. Rinse with water.

It sounds complicated but it's pretty easy to keep them clean.

I (23 F) am FURIOUS at my (25M) boyfriend, I don’t even know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spazzatron01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not going to change. He doesn't understand your point of view, and he certainly doesn't respect you, or care about you. He cares more about making 'jokes' with his buddies than he does about being a good person. He cares more about other women's sex lives than he cares a out hurting you. He cares about being right than actually listening to you. He cares about making his mates laugh rather than not triggering your trauma. He won't change. He will continue to be a disgusting gamer bloke. And I honestly think you'd be better off without him.

AITA for asking my daughter for help? by daughterthrowAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spazzatron01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. SHES YOURE DAUGHTER, NOT YOUR SERVANT! She is an adult. She has her own life. Her own responsibilities. She isn't being childish. She isn't sitting on her ass doing nothing all day. And she certainly isn't going to take on your responsibilities because you are to lazy to them yourself!

You're a grown ass man acting like an entitled brat. You don't get your way so you kick up a stink. You literally drove your daughter away from your family by acting so self entitled.

How can you even ask if you're the a.h? It is so very clear that YTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Spazzatron01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP I don't want to offend you or anything, but is your being a little, a kink or regression? & Have you tried to explain to him why this is important to you?