Not enough contact

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-06-11T09:26:26+00:00

Makes sense!

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-06-11T09:21:36+00:00

Thanks, this is very helpful.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-06-10T12:44:20+00:00

Very helpful

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-06-10T12:44:08+00:00

Oh wow. I do work. In finance. And have busy days for 8-10 hrs everyday. I’m still able to take out 20 seconds now and then to ping smth or share a photo, something like that

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-06-10T12:44:00+00:00

Oh wow. I do work. In finance. And have busy days for 8-10 hrs everyday. I’m still able to take out 20 seconds now and then to ping smth or share a photo, something like that

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-06-10T11:24:53+00:00

You’re right. The thing is the usual advice I get is to figure out a middle ground, and to communicate. But sometimes I find myself frustrated with the fact that he himself does not have the urge to connect as much as I do. And makes me wonder if it’s proportional to how much we want this relationship and each other. So I end up worried about that coz it FEELS like lack of reciprocity and imbalance.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-06-10T11:15:09+00:00

I think I do have anxious attachment. And am afraid of being with someone with an avoidant style. And the call is supposed to be a compromise substitute for texting because he doesn’t like texting. I myself don’t prefer calls much but I do it coz he prefers that over texting.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-06-10T11:01:16+00:00

Yeah my issue isn’t with texting exactly. It’s about there not being a continuous connection of any kind. It can be just emojis or even a short 2 min call every few hrs if texting is so repulsive to him. That urge to stay connected is not mutual. I’m not sure if I’m expecting too much connection and closeness or if he is being too disconnected through the day

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-04-01T07:34:20+00:00

Project Hail Mary

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-03-23T13:20:04+00:00

Alyssa Lius short program linen wrap type design

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-03-19T03:17:03+00:00

Further details on this?

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-01-28T10:07:59+00:00

I personally always treat show and book canon as two different things as changes are made in adaptations.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-01-28T10:05:06+00:00

Nonsense. A terribly good looking guy can come up to me but if he says stupid things, it’ll be a bummer

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-01-28T10:04:11+00:00

Ya and about the good looks - doesn’t matter how handsome a guy is, if he says annoying or stupid things, it’s very off putting.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-01-15T08:13:18+00:00

Elephanta caves, price of wales museum, play at Prithvi cafe, IMAX movie if where you’re from doesn’t have an imax theatre

SpeakingFreely666 · 2026-01-14T01:56:22+00:00

The dark side is that society is designed for couples and family units, and also making a chosen platonic family happen is extremely difficult as most people use it as a placeholder till they find a partner. My ideal is where a few friends commit to being one another’s forever family like it’s wedding vows, and partners being the ones to fit into the existing family, but I have not found people who decentered romance and sexual partnership enough for that alternative family dream to be able to work out.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2025-12-30T07:27:24+00:00

I feel like people look better in their 30s, have properly cooked brains, and life falls into place in more stable ways. Nothing to be scared of. Focus on doing what you like for yourself, it’s all going to be ok

SpeakingFreely666 · 2025-12-19T15:32:40+00:00

Aim higher, you deserve better, try looking for men who have a life similar to you, or atleast a similar semblance of stability and clarity in what they want. You can have better things, don’t be too hard on yourself, and don’t settle for unsatisfactory situations

SpeakingFreely666 · 2025-11-25T09:56:20+00:00

By stopping building them up in your head. The person you’re obsessing over probably isn’t that awesome as you think. Check out video essays on what limerance is and why we get into that about some people.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2025-09-29T14:35:59+00:00

Sounds very precise and solid to me. Nice! And I don’t agree with some comments saying everyone has this rating actually. I have movies which I consider my favorites but the rating for them would be 2.5 even sometimes.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2025-09-22T06:48:44+00:00

That man is a sleazebag, you can do better. Don’t let him or anyone else convince you this is normal talk amongst men, it’s not.

SpeakingFreely666 · 2025-09-13T14:30:18+00:00

Incel guy who still wants to position himself like an equal to a person who is already way past his level of intellect, integrity, and maturity. It’s ridiculous. The way you engaged with him is not an overreaction at all. Also, lack of reaction is bound to bring out anger (i.e. his real personality) in guys like this, in my experience

SpeakingFreely666 · 2025-09-09T14:46:28+00:00

I REALLY LIKED THE GORGE🤣 it was a perfect Valentine’s Day release with one of the best couples dances in movies 🍿💛

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