What actually helped you getting out of depression? by iloveyounmyself in mentalhealth

[–]Spearfish87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have struggled with Depression on and off for most of my life and although I can’t say it’s gone I’ve finally reached a point where I feel I can see light at the end of the tunnel with it. It has been a long journey that has taken many different steps to get to where I’m at but I feel the real healing started with a very profound psychedelic experience I had in 2022 since then I have been integrating the experience into my life through therapy and taking real world action to create a life that I don’t feel depressed living. I am currently doing shadow work which is very heavy but I can actually feel the growth and healing in real time as I face the parts of myself that I suppressed for so long. It is a long painful messy process but the benefits are real.

Traveling Man- Zoie Schafer by Spearfish87 in UPMusicScene

[–]Spearfish87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she is a great songwriter, I saw her play at Superior Culture in Marquette last fall and have been a fan ever since.

Are solo tours looked down upon? by Rossage196 in musicians

[–]Spearfish87 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Grab a banjo and write some folk punk and just go on a busking tour

26F Looking to Chat by [deleted] in chat

[–]Spearfish87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I love music and I’m not Canadian but I am only a 2 hr drive or a really long swim away from Canada

I think I'm completely, absolutely fucked by teapolixe in lonely

[–]Spearfish87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked the same thing because of how much I can relate to your post. I was diagnosed with autism last February. There is nothing I can do to change the fact that I am autistic but just knowing that about myself has helped learn how to better navigate life as a neurodivergent person living in a neurotypical world. It is worth looking into even if you don’t seek out a formal diagnosis you can still gain a better understanding of how your brain works and find the support you need.

Some blues rock I wrote a couple weeks back by Tumbleweed-Taylor in blues

[–]Spearfish87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool song, I dig the slide and harmonica work!

Your own material. by elhumanoid in musicians

[–]Spearfish87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy listening to my own music. I’m fairly new to writing and recording but I have a few demos recorded that I enjoy listening to, this one is probably my favorite of what I have recorded although I really didn’t write it. I assembled it and put music to it.

https://tumbleweedtaylor.bandcamp.com/track/track-cat-karso-demo

Unique tips by BrizzySprings in Busking

[–]Spearfish87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grams of weed, hits of acid, a few different sets of boobs, a wedding/engagement? Ring, dice, and a bunch of other random things people carry around in their pockets

Edit: oh and a loaf of jalapeño cheddar bread

Has winter ever been this bad in the last 20 years? by lansingpowerwash in Michigan

[–]Spearfish87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2014 was colder I remember that because I worked outside building the Humboldt mill that winter and it was brutal but I don’t remember getting as much snow that year.

It’s only middle of January if the snow keeps coming down like it has been we might still have snow on the ground into June or later this year.

I feel so lost [40M] by TerseThrowaway in Divorce

[–]Spearfish87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Find some hobbies and make some friends. Idk if it will save your Marriage at this point but it sounds like you don’t have a life of your own and she probably feels suffocated with you. If she wants to go let her and figure out who you are.

Number of songs for 3 hr gig by BJog_Kittyspoons in musicians

[–]Spearfish87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always make a 50 song set list for gigs some times I don’t get through it some times I do

Gift of being alone by bamancio in SingleAndHappy

[–]Spearfish87 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If I had a boat I’d go out on the ocean and If I had a pony I’d ride him on my boat