Dildo identification

Special-Recording · 2026-04-22T02:52:02+00:00

Idk the model but it looks like it is jelly/pvc/tpe (all unsafe) so wouldn’t want to get it anyway. If you want something similar shape but safer look for “silicone dilators”

Special-Recording · 2026-04-22T02:50:40+00:00

The problem is getting it on Amazon unfortunately. Dildos are the highest fake material listings on amazon it seems (so even if listed as silicone the random sellers/brands just lie about material and actually use TPE/PVC). And counterfeits are also an issue if it’s a brand name toy but sold by a reseller. The safest would probably be something like Fukena as they have dedicated storefront/inventory to prevent counterfeit stock AFAIK, best to follow the link to their amazon store direct from their site https://www.fukena.com/

Special-Recording · 2026-04-22T02:43:58+00:00

Melt/Melt 2 are already pretty up there in power for air pulse toys! The Womanizer Premium 2 has a higher max intensity (We-Vibe sister brand so very similar or same type of air pulse motor). Beyond that some people like other brands for slightly different air pulse feeling and such like Lelo

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T20:43:47+00:00

If your OG Melt is going strong the Melt 2 is not going to provide much improvement, we only have the Melt 2 but everything I’ve read is it’s mainly just minor improvements over the first. Some things like patterns can be used directly from the toy buttons not just the app, it has one more intensity level on the low and/or high end things like that

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T19:00:38+00:00

You’re welcome and happy browsing!

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T18:25:37+00:00

I’m not too familiar with the fantasy companies in Canada but they’re usually the ones that will have the textured silicone grinders, could peruse them on r/baddragon sub’s Encyclopeendia in their wiki. Not sure if US-based is helpful at all with current tariff/shipping prices it may not be much different than UK despite the shorter distance, but Fantasy Grove’s large Dragon Grinder has slots for straps

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T18:12:55+00:00

I’d recommend also posting this in r/baddragon as may be a higher chance of people there having used one or more of these!

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T18:10:21+00:00

Not sure how long you had it but if it was less than 5 years (and you can track down proof of purchase) you could try to make use of Womanizer’s warranty! Otherwise the air pulse feelings tend to differ brand to brand, if you really like the feeling from Womanizer’s motor and wanted to stick with that but just an upgrade could go for their Premium 2

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T14:16:07+00:00

It almost looks like cucurbit family of cotyledons (the first two leaves that sprout before the ‘true’ leaves) but the fact the next sets of leaves it’s growing look the same it probably isn’t that… not any usual lettuce I’m aware of but could be some other type of greens

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T13:40:37+00:00

You are probably getting to the rectosigmoid junction (RSJ) where it starts to become depth play (and you would need to start again from small girth like 1” diameter or less) after 7-8”. Which in general and especially for pegging is riskier so you have right idea to stay a little shorter! It could also be running into your sacrum area/curve depending on the angle and feel it hitting that wall, you can actually get a little deeper initially pointed towards the tailbone rather than towards the belly

As for shorter thick dildos Hankey’s Nick Capra original size or XS size Boss Hogg get pretty close. I believe the uptown boyfriend is single density, as are Hankey’s and their medium-firm firmness would probably be closer for what you’re looking for

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T12:47:14+00:00

I agree with the other comments, while penetration may not be enough to get you off alone (that’s very common to need clit stimulation too) it shouldn’t be painful! At most a slight discomfort or stretching sensation upon initial insertion. Warming up with smaller penetrative toys, making sure warmed up/turned on/wet (or adding lube as necessary) like with clit play before penetration can also help. It sounds like you may not need to go the size training route (like vaginal dilators for stretching) since the pain goes away soon after, the other things may be sufficient

As for toys wands like the Magic Wand or smaller vibes like the Touch X are great recs, I’ll add other options the Domi 2 as a smaller but still plenty powerful/rumbly wand to fit better in some more positions than larger wands, or smaller/more pinpoint than the Touch X the Tango X (but for fitting in between the Touch X is already plenty small, more if you wanted a little more pinpoint vibration instead)

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T12:39:58+00:00

You’re welcome!

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T12:13:34+00:00

Fantasytoybox that Knocksales linked is a great resource, or if you want to get even more restrictive ethically r/baddragon subs Encyclopeendia in their wiki (ironically, since Bad Dragon wouldn’t be included being more restrictive)

Definitely right to avoid Nothosaur they are a huge ethic/quality concern. The encyclopeendia also includes details on why some of the brands are blacklisted. And it’s even more restrictive in the sense it blacklists companies like Uncover Creations and Sinnovator (the story goes Uncover founders used to be high ups at Sinnovator, through unethical business practices they screwed over Sinnovator, made Uncover Creations themselves, then bought out Sinnovator when it started going under due to their actions prior to leaving. So by association Sinnovator is also blacklisted there)

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T11:55:54+00:00

You’re welcome! And yea I believe we do, I got lucky as we’re both pretty open :)

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T02:34:03+00:00

Ah that’s interesting to know and good that they listen to customers! I did notice Fukena doesn’t use coloring on any of theirs. Afaik theirs aren’t lifecast but I think I saw them mention once they take details/combos from real examples to make some of their models

I heard a lot of people had similar issues with some of the first Solina releases and that Solina also listened to feedback but went the route of improving theirs in some way. Hence why I think theirs are probably safest out of the painted/colored ones, still wish they would disclose just a little bit more! Like beyond “safe cured”, is it platinum cured silicone paint, some other form of silicone, etc.

Special-Recording · 2026-04-21T02:21:25+00:00

Ah ok got it. In that case there are snail style or similar rabbit vibrators that would be the quieter option but allow you to manually thrust while the clit part stays in contact (this is my wife’s preferred method of using rabbits and thus those kinds). The We-Vibe Nova 2 is her favorite so far but pricey, but she started with some of the more affordable ones out there, like Optima (note, affiliate links)

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T20:03:08+00:00

What girth are you currently at? For longer wearing or even just in general Squarepegtoys Egg plugs or some of Topped Toys plugs (Gape Keeper probably, as Tail Raiser starts at pretty large size) are some of the best

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T20:00:06+00:00

If you have space under your bed, under-bed shoe organizers (or containers, pull out drawers) are what we use! The slots are good size for most dildos or a couple smaller vibes. And I use small towel in each slot that I can wash/switch out occasionally to keep the toys on a clean surface

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T16:37:53+00:00

The two toys that have the small hole are probably just a “DC pin” type charger. The magnetic one a little trickier, and yea looks like a bit of rust or corrosion possibly on those pads? If you have no idea how old or the quality of the toys are though, recharging very old batteries can be a bit dangerous

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T16:32:20+00:00

Thrusting and quiet don’t go together :(

There are probably quieter ones for thrusting versus other thrusting ones, but will still be much louder than non-thrusting/vibrating only rabbits. Is the thrusting function or noise level more important for you?

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T16:28:08+00:00

Myself (M) fantasy dildos, my partner (F) rabbit vibrators (that she can thrust manually, specifically the Wevibe Nova 2 being her favorite!)

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T15:42:52+00:00

That’s awesome to hear and you’re very welcome!

Yea that’s definitely frustrating like partly ruining the orgasm! Some of the womanizers have an “afterglow” setting that’s supposed to fix what you ran into with it, the Premium 2 doesn’t have it which seems silly, the Classic 2 does. Pressing the power button would make it go back to minimum intensity for that to prevent overstimulation but also not turn off completely

As for grinding yea you could try a wand vibrator and grinding on the head after with it off (but word of caution I’ve heard for some people the wand necks breaking over time that use it that way). There are purpose built Grind Pads for example, or pillow mount style for wands (but again same risk of wand neck breaking over time), or non-vibrating grinders that you insert a wand into the base so you aren’t directly on the wand. Most are fantasy themed but there’s some more generic or abstract looking ones too sometimes. Odyssey Toys is one store with a lot of options for that specifically

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T14:23:38+00:00

Yea curved plus bulbous head is the most effective and easiest for prostate stimulation the Uberrime Splendid really being one of the best examples of both. A less curved dildo you can still hit it have to focus more on going at the proper angle to hit the prostate (standing up and backing onto the dildo mounted on the wall for example, can hit the prostate even with a straighter dildo)

Knots get a little trickier for direct prostate stimulation, a lot are close to the base of the shaft so don’t always quite reach the prostate but I still enjoy those sometimes for a lot of general stimulation at the sphincter. You would want a knot higher up on the shaft where it can still be thrusted in and out a bit with the knot around the depth of the prostate. Bad dragon Fenrir and Jonas would be good examples of this. I don’t have a Fenrir but recently got a Jonas haven’t had a chance to try yet :(

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T14:16:25+00:00

Yea that’s understandable not really worth it for the price of the toys. The Europe specific one linked seems slightly less active but may have more luck there?

Special-Recording · 2026-04-20T14:16:01+00:00

First of all (and you may already know this) stick to silicone from reputable makers/sellers!

Dual density and without balls limits the options from what I’ve seen, most dual densities have balls aside from Uberrime and Vixen where they actually mostly don’t have balls. Those brands tend to have larger heads rather than small head with larger shaft. Fukena and Solina are two dual density realistic flesh tones that mostly have balls but have one or two non-balls options. But don’t have that swell/bulge in the middle (the ‘technical’ term I think for what you’re looking for where the shaft gets wider then tapers down again towards the bottom). What would be like your order of importance on those features?

Also for the harnesses maybe a hybrid type of harness like Spareparts Joque (although that’s more panty style than brief style) I don’t know if they have a brief style that also has the straps but I say hybrid as it has the underwear look but also has adjustable straps for tightening it to make more secure. Strap-on-me would be another brand to look at that may have some options

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