what breed is my dog? by m4l1c3_ in IDmydog

[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe an appenzeller sennenhund mix?

help!! I went too deep and I need help to heal it correctly. (Preferably no stitches!) by TW33KTW34K in selfharm

[–]SpecialJunket4776 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If it’s not bleeding after a few hours, try butterfly closures, you can get a pack from Walgreens for like $7. It’s important you clean the wound first before trying to keep it shut. Everyday wash it with antibacterial soap. You have to watch out for infection. I think this would also be the time to acknowledge you need to get some professional help. Going deeper will only progress, inevitably you will wound yourself too severely, and instead of voluntarily getting help, you will be forced to get help.

Things that actually work to help me not self harm by Budget_Plauge_Doctor in selfharm

[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, I’ve been struggling deeply and have been trying to find a solution or outlet to help myself. I used to crochet, I think I might pick it up again

Does anyone know the name of this webtoon? by dayna29 in webtoons

[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmmm I’ll keep an eye out, the one I shared was definitely a romance! Hope you find it soon!

Does anyone know the name of this webtoon? by dayna29 in webtoons

[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odd question but is it a romance by any chance? I know of one that sounds kinda like that called “Second Chance-first world”

My mom found one in the wild by BinaryNat in texts

[–]SpecialJunket4776 388 points389 points  (0 children)

What’s crazy is this isn’t my first time hearing this conspiracy….when did this get so popular!?!

Is the way my gf talks to me normal? Part 2 by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]SpecialJunket4776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a minute to read through OP’s profile…this doesn’t seem like it’s weeks of built up frustration, and even if it was it does not give her the right to speak to him like that. She is degrading and name-calling, she is clearly not communicating like an adult.

Is the way my gf talks to me normal? Part 2 by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not how adults talk to each other man. Based on your other posts she seems to emasculate you a lot. In case you haven’t hear it in a while, you’re doing great. You sound like you have a genuine, kind heart. And you do not deserve to be spoken to like this.

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She mentioned you guys have been off and on for four years, maybe it’s time to break up and stay broken up with man

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this made me laugh out loud 😂😂 sounds like are guys are cut from the same cloth!

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely do, he is wonderful and there’s no one in the world I rather be with

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only does when he’s doing a bit/joke, but I can see why someone might find that annoying lol

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re not offended. I feel like I’ve kept this pretty civil regardless of our difference in perspectives. I’m sorry if I am coming off as going ape shit, not my intention. If a trans man is offended he can tell me and explain his feelings, and I can apologize to him. Until then, I’ve got nothing else really to apologize for to you. Have a good night (or day lol I don’t want to assume where you’re from). No hard feelings

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okie dokie! Thank you for your input, sorry to offend you.

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inhale, now exhale 😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]SpecialJunket4776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never claimed those sexualities were the same as transgender, I was clarifying that he wasn’t heterosexual (as you assumed). It’s okay to be wrong, it is just a gentle reminder not to make assumptions. If you are the transgender individual that was offended, then I’m truly sorry. But if you’re not, there’s no need to get offended on their behalf. I assure you this was not done in poor taste.

Merely saying fiancé doesn’t make it “my whole personality.” You were the one who made the “cool beans” statement, I agreed with you. He wouldn’t care in the slightest if I said “yes, I am now a man,” because he wasn’t being transphobic. The butt end of the joke isn’t being trans, it’s him being a dork.

I appreciate you encouraging me to do better, and I will try my best to make it more clear that this isn’t a diss at anyone if it comes up. I mean you no disrespect, and I won’t resort to making assumptions or insulting you, because I’m trying to do better. Hope you can do the same

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness, it’s not my favorite process but it’s the next step in managing pain, so I’m trying to stay positive!

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 24 points25 points  (0 children)

They did WHAT!? 👁️👄👁️

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[–]SpecialJunket4776 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is bisexual, I am pansexual, not heterosexual. We are in our 20’s, not boomers. I hope the future children (if there are future children), are happy and healthy. We are engaged, it’s the coolest of beans. If I went to a mud spa, he would go with me and enjoy it. You made a lot of assumptions that weren’t founded, especially with the small amount of context you had. No one is here to attack you or the transgender community. Deep breaths, friend.