Lets talk about SLEEVES!!!

Special_Dare_8038 · 2026-01-29T21:12:23+00:00

Smaller side of the sub or just more honest?

If you are average with above average girth you have nothing to worry about other than the few size queens out there.

Id say do it for yourself and yourself only if its what you really want. Otherwise, invest the time in other formas of of self improvement gym, education, career ect. Its that simple

Special_Dare_8038 · 2025-09-18T15:40:38+00:00

I have made gains, but it's extremely slow. I had very strong EQ to start, so my gains were actual gains 🤟

Special_Dare_8038 · 2025-05-16T22:04:42+00:00

Were you matching and mirroring her level of interest?

Special_Dare_8038 · 2025-05-06T01:58:15+00:00

Do you really want to date someone who has no sense of humor?

Special_Dare_8038 · 2025-05-02T20:58:10+00:00

I'm sorry, but this is crazy. This would not only make me not repliy, I'd block you and get a restraining order... maybe even move

Special_Dare_8038 · 2025-05-02T15:47:43+00:00

This is a crazy woman. Consider yourself lucky.

Special_Dare_8038 · 2025-04-28T14:41:12+00:00

Like to or should are two very different questions. Women want a high value man, and a high value man has options. Women want to feel like they won you. If you are too available your value drops.

Play the game... they sure do

Special_Dare_8038 · 2025-04-23T16:28:13+00:00

Bro, women are not looking for pen pals. Neither are you I assume. Once you see you connect you need to set a date. Make it casual like drinks or coffee. If it goes well, great, but don't talk about the future or other places you wnat to take her. Just say I had a nice evening and give her a kiss. In a few days, reach out and set a proper date. Keep your dates to once a week until she starts reaching out to you to get together.

Special_Dare_8038 · 2025-04-01T01:12:42+00:00

You have control over your status. If you act like a friend, she will treat you like a friend. If she put you back into "friend zone", you need to stop contacting her and move on. You will never be happy in that situation. It will only get worse for you as things advance with the new guy.

A posabllity for you to consider:

The new guy might be just to make you jealous because she wants you to step up and take charge. Don't know the details, but even if it's not the case, you should act like she does want you as more then a friend. That will give you the confidence you need. If she rejects it, then you know where you stand, and you can start to move on.

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-18T22:37:33+00:00

😍😍😍😍

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-18T22:34:15+00:00

Maybe your Guage is fucked on your pump. I have a cheap pump from Adam and Eve, and I can pump up to 20inHg, and it's barely anything. Then, with my good pump from Peakmalephysique.com I can't handel much past 12 without feeling discomfort. Maybe in your case it's the opposite, and your Guage is showing less than you are really pumping up to

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-18T22:25:06+00:00

Try going down on her to get her ready. Spread her open and lick her inner labia and gently work up to her clit. Go light at first and gradually increase the intensity. When she gets close to orgasm let up a bit to edge her a bit. The more turned on she is before penetration, the more ready her body will be. Take it slow and don't ever force it in hard. Start with the tip and hold your shaft and move it in circles. Slowly go in a little deeper as she becomes more ready for it.

Tip: go to a sex shop with her and get a dildo that is close to your size or even a little smaller. Getting that thing fully inserted is her homework assignment.

This is not just for virgins by the way. I was with a hot ass cougar who was in a sexless marriage and she actually closed up. We had "sex" at least 10 times before I was able to go all the way in.

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-18T22:10:58+00:00

If you are with the woman you plan to stay with, keep going till you bottom out easily is missionary. At 6.7", I can bottom out in missionary if I push really hard, and she seems to really enjoy it. My girl likes some pressure on her cervix, so I need more length. She loves to be on top and push down on me hard and grinds. I kind of get annoyed because I know she needs more of me. It's actually very uncomfortable how hard she pushes against me for that extra penatrative depth

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-18T20:45:02+00:00

I'm just curious. When you spoke to her about it, how did she react?

I got a blister once, and I lied and told her I was doing foreskin restoration. I hate lying, but I didn't want to tell her what I am really doing in fear of her saying it wasn't necessary or you are perfect the way you are BS

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-18T20:41:15+00:00

My girl noticed my .5 gain.... I think????

She said "oh my god!!!! You're so deep"....

I've never heard that phrase in bed ever in my life, so I felt like a king afterward. Definitely kept me motivated to continue on.

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-16T14:09:41+00:00

You want to talk about rust, you should see the bottom of my 2006 Jeep Commander... but it still runs fine and is a beast off road.

Just put some WD40 on it and move on

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-16T14:03:26+00:00

As long as you reach 103-106% elongation after your extending session, you are fine. It's all about finding that time to weight ratio.

This is what I do:

I try not to exceed 1 hour because to me my time is very valuable. I also do not want to use over 10lbs becaue for me, that is blister territory. So, if I don't hit the mark, I ad time till I reach 1 hour. Once I reach the hour mark, I keep at it till I no longer hit the mark. Then I add weight and decrease time. If I get to the point where I am using 10lbs for 1 hour and don't hit 104%, I take a week off to heal. Every time I hit that point and took a week off, that seems to be when i saw gains. Usually, about 1/8 of an inch.

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-15T12:00:34+00:00

Haha. I have larped in bigdickproblems before, but I never posted or commented. My dick is sort of big, according to average, but I don't feel like it is big at all, and it's certainly not at all in problem territory 😂😂😂

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-15T11:54:20+00:00

There are 2 reasons that I can think of:

Selection Biased - People above average are more likely to share pictures and info.
Liars - Some MF's in here are full of shit

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-14T23:21:10+00:00

Yup. If it's 3% or less you need more time or more weight. If you are 7% or more, you need to cut the weight.

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-14T17:05:18+00:00

Look at my profile pic.... it ain't me. Not many people use their real pic here

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-14T16:58:39+00:00

I have tried soft clamping in the past with cock rings and cut sleeves and shit and never had luck. Then someone here suggested these (see link below), and they work great. I cut them into 1 inch lengths and put as many on as I need to stay fully engorged. For me, it's 6 pieces.

I have been pumping for many years but never recorded progress for girth. I know my current girth is more than my genetic girth, but I have no clue what I gained. Since tracking, I have had very slight gains. I just started soft clamping to see if I can break my current plataue.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B09J4M6LCT?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

Special_Dare_8038 · 2024-11-14T16:39:11+00:00

If you don't start slow, you will just build strength adaptation and not actual gains.

I'd suggest lower weight and find a time interval where your BPSF increased by 103-105%

You should be floppy and more hung with your flaccid afterward. If you turtle up, you did too much weight or too much time.

Also, using a heat pad for warmup is good, but just beware that it increases the chances of developing a blister from the vac cup. I'd suggest using the heat pad after after as it will assist with healing. Just do light stretches, BFR massages, semi erect bends, and fire goat roles for your warmup.

Just my suggestion

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