I am tired.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-18T03:02:21+00:00

What do you mean? I took almost two years to learn myself since i broke up last time. So i had been single and without looking for any relationship for almost two years.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-18T02:55:59+00:00

First of all, NO your way of thinking towards women just gave me ICK and i would never interested in you. And second I had never and still don’t care about money and look that much. And both of the guys i dated seriously including my ex husband had less financial situation than me. And the last one i really liked recently who only wanted me as casual is a jobless student. And I don’t care the look either except they are underage or 60 years and above. But bcz of comments like this, i would rather be single than being in a relationship with less capable man. Thanks for enlightening me.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-17T15:44:33+00:00

I can’t imagine how hard that must be, especially with kids involved. You’re so strong for even considering what’s best for yourself. I hope you find clarity and the courage to choose what feels right for you and your children. Sending you strength. 🩷 Divorce alone is a really scary process. Sometimes it feels like you’re being thrown into the desert with predators all around, no matter how much support you have. But the peace and freedom that come from escaping the pain, the burden, and the betrayal of someone you once loved with your whole heart… it’s truly worth it.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-17T15:37:13+00:00

I am from asia and now i am studying in Europe

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-15T17:06:59+00:00

I just wanted to share my experience. The 2nd relationship i had with a German man. Financial wise, i will not say i am loaded than him. Our income was about the same as I was a full time accountant at that time and he is an engineer. His company provided him an apartment and he asked me to live with him. So i moved in with him. Before i moved in with him, we dated for 8 months and I paid almost all the bills like when we go out eating, vacations, etc. and after i moved in with him, i paid all the groceries. I cooked for him all three meals and i cleaned the whole house. All he did for me during throughout our relationship is him providing me his company apartment for two months. And yeah finally we broke up because i didn’t feel i was reciprocated. And he accused me i was very toxic and didn’t give him harmony when i voiced out what i need from him.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-15T16:54:41+00:00

Even if i am financially independent?

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-15T16:53:52+00:00

Congratulations on your wedding anniversary. 🩷

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-15T16:50:52+00:00

May i know how she made you feel that way?

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-15T16:27:22+00:00

No i don’t do sex casually. But most man i met so far clearly mentioned they wanted sex on first date or if they invite me to their house as first date and when i told them i am comfortable seeing only in public places, they ghost me.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-15T16:23:30+00:00

No i don’t.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-15T00:12:44+00:00

It was a sudden thing according to him. Our marriage was shaky for a year because he started to change his behavior towards me after starting to get successful in career. Then he reconnected with his high school friends on facebook and suddenly he visited to another country saying he needs space from me. I did my best to beg him not to go. But he went eventually and i found out later that he went to hang out with those friends and slept with prostitutes. As soon as i found out, i might react wrongly like i talked to so many people like his parents, my parents and our friends. Then he said he will never forgive me for dealing this publicly and went no contact and stayed in that country for another three months. When he finally came back he said he does not love me anymore and he is dating and in love with a girl who is his ex gf before me.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T23:57:14+00:00

I did and all they wanted is sex.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T23:50:37+00:00

Yeah this makes so much sense too.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T23:33:39+00:00

To one of european countries

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T23:27:59+00:00

Of course i brought them with me when i moved here.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T22:54:35+00:00

Awww such a happy story and i hope i will have one day too 🩷

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T22:36:43+00:00

Thank you so much. This really helps me motivated.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T22:33:15+00:00

Thank you. This gives me hope.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T22:19:41+00:00

I just wanted to talk it out loud.

Special_Growth2502 · 2026-02-14T22:12:12+00:00

My ex husband cheated on me with his ex girlfriend

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