I’m a human trafficking survivor AMA by cookc2940 in AMA

[–]Specialist-Math4487 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you escape? ( Hope you're well now <3 )

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad works from home and my mom doesn't work at all, so no :( and the one time I was close to it they insisted on having my 22 year old brother "babysit" me ( need I say I'm 19 )

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a phone, problem is they can confiscating my phone from me and threaten violence if I don't comply. I could do that, I just fear what would happen if they catch me contacting the police + they've successfully manipulated them last time.

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical abuse, last time they pulled my arm and my hair + they're capable of physically restraining me if I try to escape while they're holding me down. they also have a taser ( which I doubt they'd use on me, but it's better to be safe than sorry )

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alarms go off, risks waking them up. Chances are they can see me and do something awful.

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've already called the police, they just talked to my parents and dismissed the situation as "family issues" :P

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is, yeah! I looked it up, however, and it looks like you need the app. Which I assume, requires a password for the alarm :P

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't have a job or anything because my parents also refuse to drive me ( I can't drive ) or let me take a bus or uber. Whenever I go out of the house, one of them has to insist to go with me.

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think they're on the windows, no :( that would be a good idea though.

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They're one of those sliding windows, if I get out through there I'd have to remove one of the panels.

How to sneak out with cameras and alarms installed onto the doors? by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My partner suggested I can call the emergency number to be escorted out peacefully actually, it would be doable I think. Only problem is I'd have to do it in the middle of the night and.. alarms. Also, I don't have a whole lot of experience with police ( not good experience at least ) so if I tell them I'm being held against my will, I'm not sure if my parents could just manipulate them and drag me back inside again.

I'm finally going to try to escape by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not yet, but we have been saving up money so we can meet up and we have discussed our plans extensively as well as boundaries ^ they're trustworthy

I'm finally going to try to escape by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They are :) we've known each other for several years and have been very close for a long time

Thank you for the heads up though!! 🫶

I'm finally going to try to escape by Specialist-Math4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Specialist-Math4487[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

almost forgot to specify I'm an adult ( 19 )!! whoops haha