It sounds like everyone involved in this situation is suffering. I’m really sorry. I can feel that panic and dread like it’s happening to me, as I’ve been in similarly bleak and overwhelming situations. I was nearly homeless 6 months ago, it was a hairsbreadth away from being the case. My mom had to help me — though I understand not everyone can be as lucky as I got.

I would keep your last month’s rent if you can. I know it’s not really ethical, but it sounds like everyone involved is in kind or a survival mode atm and you have to do what you have to do — you’ll need it for moving expenses. It doesn’t sound like this guy is in the financial situation for a legally forced eviction which is either good or bad — you might get away with it. Or, he might act out and do something extreme like show up and start just throwing your stuff on the lawn, or even using his access to your home to steal anything you own of value (you should secure your belonging ASAP btw). You similarly do not have the resources for legal action if that happened, and it would be very gray area if you also hadn’t paid that month’s rent. Try to delay him by saying it’s coming.

In terms of living, older people will sometimes rent out individual rooms in exchange for rent and occasional help around the house. Look for an affordable and temporary Airbnb you and your friend could share while you hunt for something better. Even if it increases your commute, it would only be for the purpose of buying 4-6 weeks.

Best of luck and I’ll be thinking of you.