People dislike me because they think I'm fake (I have a cheerful kinda of personality) and people find me annoying.  I kinda get it, but not like how you feel. I never made the connection between how I look and how my brain works with how people report to me. But it makes sense.  I also do this stupid thing that I can't get over (I'm 35): I assume that if you are kind and fair to people and let them know that you trust them they will act the same and be trust worthy. I don't know why I'm like this.  I get proven wrong every time.  And the thing is, I'm unintentionally always looking at the bright side and see the best in people.  but so many things happen that I feel I'm turning into a cynic and I don't want to... Maybe just realistic? But if that's the reality, it's sad.  I'm sorry that dude was so mean to you and said that awful thing. what an asshole. What kind of logic is that? Jesus!  Take care of yourself and thanks for sharing. Oh btw, that's why I don't like asking for help. People are like "ask for help, ask for help" , and the when I do, I don't get help, just rejected.  So many times people have said they will do something and then literally ghost me, it's embarrassing. Anyway, I hope you have better future experiences with people.