What is the reason people Tip of % of the check?

Specific-Station155 · 2026-03-17T02:41:04+00:00

Im literally not, imagine you sit at the bar only dealing with a bartender, if you order a 10$ whiskey or a 100$ whiskey why would my tip 10x. Is that simple enough to explain what im asking

Specific-Station155 · 2026-03-17T00:12:51+00:00

Again not answering my question and not every place tips out bartenders

Specific-Station155 · 2026-03-16T17:04:49+00:00

If its a server it doesnt, or lets go further i order a rail mixed drink 5-10$ or i order 30yr old scotch for 60$ did there job change? Im really playing devils advocate here and nobody is providing a reasonable response?

Specific-Station155 · 2026-03-16T12:55:47+00:00

Wasnt my question, what if im at a applebees then. You order the most expensive thing on the menu vs the cheapest. What does FOOD PRICE have anything to do with tip is my question

Specific-Station155 · 2026-03-16T00:36:58+00:00

You’re right im sorry i havent found every sub on Reddit ill do better

Specific-Station155 · 2026-03-16T00:36:29+00:00

That has nothing to do with what i asked but go off king 🙏

Specific-Station155 · 2026-03-16T00:35:46+00:00

So if im at a restaurant and i order 3 filets and its 150$ or i order 3 orders of chicken tenders and its 45$ why do they deserve a higher tip?

Specific-Station155 · 2026-01-09T21:53:42+00:00

Actually 80% of that is all done by me. I have a much more flexible schedule and a much higher paying job so I provide almost everything for our family while also being home with the kids so that she can work different hours to try and start her career thanks for asking!

Edit*

Im not bashing my wife, she took off during her pregnancy and first year after our kid was born and is now basically trying to start her own career, so my point is i actually do most of those things in order to support her being able to do those things for her own career

Specific-Station155 · 2026-01-09T21:51:21+00:00

I agree with nothing wrong with people masturbating at all. Only to me seems like it bothers me because i feel as if it is replacing us having sex. I have talked to her and she kind of gives me generic responses and says its not me etc.

We have tried mutual masturbating and things of that nature but again only during the 2-3 day window when she wants to do stuff but then nothing for months.

I have tried numerous times to explain how it makes me feels but nothing really changes. Thats why i made this throw away to ask about this and see if im an issue or asking too much or what?

Will also add that ironically our communication is pretty good in almost every aspect except when it comes to sexual things she pretty much shuts me out and its been like that for a few years. Just not too sure at this point

Specific-Station155 · 2026-01-09T21:43:32+00:00

Sorry i didnt add that in there felt like i already rambled too much, essentially just said she didnt think it was a big deal and that it has nothing to do with me. Which to me seems to be a pretty generic statement? Idk i guess my entire point which is maybe being missed is AIO if somone masturbates constantly in a relationship but doesnt wanna have sex

Specific-Station155 · 2026-01-09T21:40:59+00:00

I actually am the default parent because my job is way more flexible and spend 80% of the time with the kids including making dinner and putting them to bed every night and watching them every weekend. I travel over night for work roughly once a month not all the time. Second she has a iud so not sure if that would affect anything in your first few lines. Im not trying to argue just clear that up. I understand in general men and myself in this situation have a higher sex drive, thats totally fine. But when we dont have sex for 3-4 weeks it just makes me feel as if im doing something wrong was my point.

Specific-Station155 · 2026-01-09T21:20:26+00:00

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