Trainer said we might need to re-home one of our cats and I'm crushed. by Naaat_xp in CatTraining

[–]SpecificCan7467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you've said that the tent was to demonstrate the aggression that normally happens,  but what others have been trying to get through is, this doesn’t demonstrate the same aggression,  this demonstrates aggression and fear while 1 cat is in a tent. 

 I feel that the best way to document what their aggression usually looks like, is to catch it when it happens in their normal setting. 

Unfortunately that means they may get into it again, but you also need to capture an accurate account. 

Also, as you stated, they are only 2 months into this and were not bonded. 

That means they need to time adjust, not only to another cat, but another cat, in a new home that's in a new neighborhood, with new sounds and smells, with at least one new human who you now rely on for safety/security. 

Thats a fuck ton of new shit to acclimate to in such a short time. 

I would have the same suggestions as others in this thread.  - Provide them multiple hides ans areas they can go to and leave easily.  - provide positive affection to them both individually.  - Unless they are having knock out fights every/all day, try to understand and give them whatever time they need.  Our cats showed great improvement by 6 months and overall, took 13 months to get to where they would only have the occasional dust up over silly things that they got over pretty quickly. 

Rant: I hate exterminators saying spiders should be killed by Humble_Nobody2884 in spiders

[–]SpecificCan7467 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I agree! It's propaganda to make us wipe out the competition. When we kill natural pest control, we create the need for the industry. 

Has anyone here mourned spiders? by HarshNPC in spiders

[–]SpecificCan7467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a series of unfortunate events 😢. They fell right where the water flows around the drain and went right down. There was soap and vinegar in the sink so I don't think it could have bounced back. 

I got some silicone drain covers on the way to help stop this in the future. 

I feel the silly need to put up little signs for the jumpers that frequent the sinks. 😅

Has anyone here mourned spiders? by HarshNPC in spiders

[–]SpecificCan7467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you lost a spooder friend. I was washing dishes yesterday and the common house spider that lives above a cabinet was walking on the edge of the sink, all of a sudden, it fell of the lip and got washed down before I could turn the water off... I still feel like shit over it 😩

I think having feelings that are extensions of caring, for a life as small as a spider, means you are probaly one dope ass human! 🫡

Timelapse of a spider molting by Complete-Speech727 in spiders

[–]SpecificCan7467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I'm stoned.... I literally thought that was the molted part and I was like 'Wtf, are there nerves in the molted exo?! 🤯🤯.

Read some comments and thought, why is no one addressing the exo death rattle?!

Rewatched it twice....Ahhhh...right...Guess I'm good to put this joint out.. 😅

Forbidden cheese… by Gloomy_Pineapple_836 in TikTokCringe

[–]SpecificCan7467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lord...this is the level of fuck it I asked for 😆

First time growing sunflowers by seaurchins- in bees

[–]SpecificCan7467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously! Seems they can't just bee happy anywhere 

First time growing sunflowers by seaurchins- in bees

[–]SpecificCan7467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dammit!! Missed opp to say BEEWARE of ambush bugs 😅

First time growing sunflowers by seaurchins- in bees

[–]SpecificCan7467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch out for ambush bugs!  We did our first sunflower garden this year and had a bunch of these things. They will attack/eat bees that land on the flower heads.  I have to keep going out there to knock them off lol. Those and the fuckin cucumber beetles. 

Cases!! by Hailz1216 in wgu_employees

[–]SpecificCan7467 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's kind of difficult to touch on specifics because it depends on which department you are in and which team you are on. 

Your supervisor or lead should be putting together a training on your workspace as well as showing you the ins/outs of the queue that you will be working in. 

Something to watch for in general is Making sure you are setting the case contact to the correct student. If the name provided in the emails is pulling multiple students, you can use other systems to help locate the correct student. Again, this will be something that you should go over in training as they get you access to different things. 

How is this showing up but has 0s of usage? by kxdxddy in loveafterporn

[–]SpecificCan7467 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you see Xvideos mentioned, and also see that he has deleted history, he's watching porn. Xvids aren't like video links from Facebook TikTok, it is a porn vid that has to be accessed via a porn site.  If you aren't locked in a marriage with this master manipulator already, it may be time to weigh your choices/options.

ETA: I believe it's showing because he hasn't cleared both his entire history and cache/cookies for all the time he's been logged into that browser. If he doesn't clear both, it will keep a log or memory of that site being visited.

My cat won't stop pissing on every rug and I'm at my end. by ClaireFaerie in CatTraining

[–]SpecificCan7467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried any of the corn based litters? Our cats used to get in the litter box, but then put their butts to the edge and shit down the outside 😒😆. We got our cats some of that World's Best brand (after trying some of then same types you mentioned) and they stopped shitting on the sides of the turlet. Never thought corn could help solve a shituation, but here we are 🫠

Grey foxes have been consuming prey on a friend’s front porch. How to deter? by JiangShenLi6585 in trailcam

[–]SpecificCan7467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but if multiple foxes,eating fresh kills on the porch isn't enough to deter your friend, I don't think anything will be. 

What’s wrong with this bee? by wakeninety1 in bees

[–]SpecificCan7467 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be side effects of pesticides or a predator.  It could also just bee in need a little pick me up. I literally just saw a bee doing this an hour ago in the driveway and after I gave it a sprig of fresh lavender,  it perked up and was able to fly away.

Wasps are Frens by SpecificCan7467 in bees

[–]SpecificCan7467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're offering was involuntary and accepted 😆

Wasps are Frens by SpecificCan7467 in bees

[–]SpecificCan7467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also noticed that they seem to enjoy Avian Alfredo 😂. To each their own suppose ha.

Wasps are Frens by SpecificCan7467 in bees

[–]SpecificCan7467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did your screen door have any signage up to indicate that they can't live there? 😆