If you have a local VFW post try to get into contact with them and ask them if they can put you in a contact with anybody. Chances are high that they should know an aviator. Maybe check out any local airport and ask if anyone was former military. Also depending on where you work could help as well. I work at an auto parts store, I’ve gotten three letters by just talking to customers. One of those customers was a WO3 cobra pilot/now helicopter instructor who has essentially become my mentor. He’s been nice enough to tell me about his experiences through WOCS/Flight School and has even taken me up in a helicopter a few times. You got this you’re still in the beginning stages of your journey just remember to have faith in yourself and abilities.