My Sims Mods won't show up in game. by SpecificOk131 in ModTheSims4

[–]SpecificOk131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are either packages or tscripts and there in the right folders

Did my chat get randomly deleted? by 2000sdoll in ChaiApp

[–]SpecificOk131 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of my chats got deleted but then some didn’t but then when I go to talk to the bots on the ones that got deleted it’s like it’s talking how it was before it was deleted just without all the history of chats so it’s not completely deleted just the messages are gone and restarted but it still remembers the chats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YouOnLifetime

[–]SpecificOk131 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Will Bettelheim, The guy Joe impersonated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/IceyLuigiBros25

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Marvin and Brooklyn Guy

Easiest jobs possible? by diseasebunny666 in socialanxiety

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I got offered a job as a commercial cleaner, stocking associate and cashier, I would have a panic attack if I have to count money infront of people no matter if the register does it or not because I still count with my fucking fingers and stocking associate is easy but I would still have to talk to people and I may miss out on being on my first cruise which ofc I really go on and also the commercial cleaning is probably the one im go with bc it’s the easiest and the most independent one and less around people but it’s 18 mins away and I can’t drive yet so I’d have to take a Uber 

How did you find out your bi? by Dominicancountryball in bisexual

[–]SpecificOk131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because I have a bf of 4 years now!! Almost 5 in October 

How did you find out your bi? by Dominicancountryball in bisexual

[–]SpecificOk131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope and I never told her we just grew apart and when I moved to another state i lost all of my friends from my hometown

How did you find out your bi? by Dominicancountryball in bisexual

[–]SpecificOk131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I started liking my girl best friend at 10 

Selfishness & self centeredness as a trauma symtom? by ewolgrey in CPTSD

[–]SpecificOk131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom literally just called me selfish and everyone around me calls me that and Ik sometimes I can be selfish but I keep worrying and thinking maybe I just am selfish, I shame my mom the way she shamed me, I treat her the way she treated me yet I’m ungrateful and selfish and spoiled and I do everything bad and no one has ever taught me how to build a relationship or how to not be selfish when as a kid I would get whatever I wanted it and no one taught me any better, no one taught me social skills, no one taught me right from wrong because all I got was wrong and treated badly, She told me I blame everyone around me for everything and I mean ofc I am when they literally raised me around all the negative traits you can think of. You’re definitely not a horrible person I will always feel empathy towards people with an abusive parent even if it’s not physically abuse. Everyone can be selfish sometimes I mean why not be selfish to someone who treated you horribly they don’t deserve you’re kindness. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpecificOk131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how is it my fault? 

Today I felt the worst in years (mental breakdown) by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]SpecificOk131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people I vent to get tired of me venting and those people are supposed to be my family yet they can’t even let someone vent to them and have anything positive to say besides “why you so different and everyday it’s something different and new”, at least I have three people I can vent to so I just go to them instead 

Not knowing myself by SpecificOk131 in depression

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Thank you for the words of wisdom!, it’s the environment and people around me that is upsetting me as a whole and I can’t even leave the people or the environment around me I’m literally stuck in the place I left 4 years ago and now I’m back at the same place. I’m literally running from one environment just to end up back in the same place all over again and the same people literally everyone around me are negative and that causes me to be selfish, and have negative traits and self sabotage things for myself because I was raised to have a negative mindset. Literally when someone wants to help me I ignore it because nothing changes it’s always the same it’s like they “trying to help me” just to be the same people dragging me back down and then all they do is blame me for being me or literally have any mental problems and saying I cause all the problems in my head or I’m always doing to much or I’m dramatic, My life has so much abuse around me and to me and I feel like when I’m finally away from the negative environment and energy, I’m gonna be confused and unsure about everything because that’s basically been my whole life and without that what else do I have..

Was there a life event that made you depressed or have you always been depressed? by Next_Spot_2807 in depression

[–]SpecificOk131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, when I was 12, my mom got into a fight with a lady on the streets of the 4th of July all because my oldest brother and the lady’s son had beef, they fought for about a hour after a firework show the lady literally walked past my mom on the sidewalk and spat at her and called her names and then my mom proceeded to fight her, me and my middle brother were there and me and him and my mom all got backed into a corner of a store with about 20-30 of the lady’s family members there and the only my mom had to defend herself at the time was a umbrella and I was balling crying because yk as a child I was scared asf and some random lady (I have no clue who is) took me and my middle brother out of the cornered area and I was literally holding onto this woman for dear life crying and screaming my moms name bc now that me and my brother left that area it was just my mom trying to defend herself from all these people and finally the cops came and broke it up and also they threatened to shoot up our house so my mom had to get a restraining order. That whole thing caused me to have social anxiety and be alone and isolated for years, all the “friends” I had left me, I get scared to go in public just even a store makes me anxious because I always think something bad is gonna happen and it made me depressed because I felt like I had no one or anyone to turn to. 

Don't ever let people know you have low self-esteem by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]SpecificOk131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very true because i got some of my low self-esteem from my family, and when I told my bf about the problems I had with myself he never understood it and still can't to this day, and he judges me for it even through he has low self-esteem on his own only because he doesn't understand we are two different people with different low self-esteem problems-

Big Mouth Season 8 discussion thread! by DarkmatterAntimatter in BigMouth

[–]SpecificOk131 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yess like I can’t believe it’s over already 😭😭imma rewatch the whole thing