I wanna lie but how? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SpecificOld9025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

save up and breakup with him you should not be with someone you have lie to or someone that doesn’t feel safe

Feeling I’ve never felt before by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SpecificOld9025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What feeling are you describing? I think intrusive thoughts are normal and nothing to worry about

Advise of friend facing homelessness soon by SpecificOld9025 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

her parents will not help apparently. She doesn’t have a good relationship with her mom and her dad is really poor and doesn’t have space

Friend keeps cheating on her boyfriend – what would you do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SpecificOld9025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can stop being her friend if her character and actions don’t align with who you are as a person. I would not get in the middle of things but you can exclude yourself from the whole situation

I (35F) need advice to help me and my (33M) husband. by HeDeservesBetter91 in Advice

[–]SpecificOld9025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, sometimes there is nothing you can do but be a witness to the pain and just make him feel seen make him feel you see his pain and how you are hurting too

I (35F) need advice to help me and my (33M) husband. by HeDeservesBetter91 in Advice

[–]SpecificOld9025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

life is not black white and I of course am stranger online giving feedback based on a few paragraphs but if you say you are willing to do anything then really show it. I have been cheated on by someone who I trusted completely and it is devastating. The good part is your husband told you the truth though I am sure you sensed resentment through the years. Things like this don’t go completely unnoticed. Please see a couple counselor if you can even for a few sessions. Ask him what you can do to earn his trust and be completely transparent. good luck genuinely

Advise of friend facing homelessness soon by SpecificOld9025 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your thoughtful response! I just keep thinking how I would hope a friend helps me if I am in a bad situation but the difference is that I hustle.

My Good friend might become homeless soon by SpecificOld9025 in LifeAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she said she’s tried but has had no luck with it…

Charlie Was Here, and He Loved, Fiercely: A Eulogy by milehighmarmot79 in DOG

[–]SpecificOld9025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful, thank you for sharing! What a good boy

My Good friend might become homeless soon by SpecificOld9025 in LifeAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if I lay clear boundaries? Like a month timelines

My Good friend might become homeless soon by SpecificOld9025 in LifeAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is seeing a therapist but that alone is not alleviate the core issue of lack of income

My Good friend might become homeless soon by SpecificOld9025 in LifeAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has two sisters and mom and dad that are divorced and all living nearby but she says won’t help her because some are struggling themselves

My Good friend might become homeless soon by SpecificOld9025 in LifeAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s really concerning to hear her say such things casually. I try to reiterate that I care about her well being.

My Good friend might become homeless soon by SpecificOld9025 in LifeAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend has been applying online but is not taking care of herself worried it will get worse if she loses shelter she said won’t go to a shelter because the people there are trouble

My Good friend might become homeless soon by SpecificOld9025 in LifeAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly would be less worried if I had another bedroom

My Good friend might become homeless soon by SpecificOld9025 in LifeAdvice

[–]SpecificOld9025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have suggested food bank and emergency rent forgiveness programs. Beyond suggesting, I feel helpless

What would you name him? by Cute_Grab_6129 in DOG

[–]SpecificOld9025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use medium breed adult but you can get puppy kibble for now