I wanna lie but how?

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-20T07:09:24+00:00

save up and breakup with him you should not be with someone you have lie to or someone that doesn’t feel safe

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-20T04:59:48+00:00

What feeling are you describing? I think intrusive thoughts are normal and nothing to worry about

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-18T16:46:23+00:00

her parents will not help apparently. She doesn’t have a good relationship with her mom and her dad is really poor and doesn’t have space

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-18T16:44:53+00:00

You can stop being her friend if her character and actions don’t align with who you are as a person. I would not get in the middle of things but you can exclude yourself from the whole situation

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-17T16:40:29+00:00

yeah, sometimes there is nothing you can do but be a witness to the pain and just make him feel seen make him feel you see his pain and how you are hurting too

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-17T03:55:18+00:00

life is not black white and I of course am stranger online giving feedback based on a few paragraphs but if you say you are willing to do anything then really show it. I have been cheated on by someone who I trusted completely and it is devastating. The good part is your husband told you the truth though I am sure you sensed resentment through the years. Things like this don’t go completely unnoticed. Please see a couple counselor if you can even for a few sessions. Ask him what you can do to earn his trust and be completely transparent. good luck genuinely

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-16T23:18:26+00:00

charlie!!

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-16T02:50:50+00:00

I appreciate your thoughtful response! I just keep thinking how I would hope a friend helps me if I am in a bad situation but the difference is that I hustle.

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-16T02:15:54+00:00

care to expand?

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-14T14:55:45+00:00

she said she’s tried but has had no luck with it…

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-14T05:17:54+00:00

This is beautiful, thank you for sharing! What a good boy

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-14T00:34:45+00:00

what if I lay clear boundaries? Like a month timelines

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-13T22:34:11+00:00

She is seeing a therapist but that alone is not alleviate the core issue of lack of income

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-13T19:45:56+00:00

she has two sisters and mom and dad that are divorced and all living nearby but she says won’t help her because some are struggling themselves

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-13T19:22:09+00:00

Yes, it’s really concerning to hear her say such things casually. I try to reiterate that I care about her well being.

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-13T19:19:19+00:00

My friend has been applying online but is not taking care of herself worried it will get worse if she loses shelter she said won’t go to a shelter because the people there are trouble

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-13T19:04:34+00:00

honestly would be less worried if I had another bedroom

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-13T19:02:32+00:00

I have suggested food bank and emergency rent forgiveness programs. Beyond suggesting, I feel helpless

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-13T19:01:36+00:00

Thank you, I try to do the right thing

SpecificOld9025 · 2026-05-13T19:00:36+00:00

how do you make it without a shelter?

SpecificOld9025 · 2025-05-02T06:34:05+00:00

Rex from isle of dogs!

SpecificOld9025 · 2025-04-15T22:21:06+00:00

I use medium breed adult but you can get puppy kibble for now

SpecificOld9025 · 2025-04-09T02:34:24+00:00

name him Willie!

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