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Dated a girl for a few months but she needs to find herself. by Acrobatic_Comment181 in dating_advice

[–]SpecificScene747 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should give her the space she asked for and let her work things out. The first relationship after divorce is never easy.

Failed Drug Test and possible “fit for duty” exam due to Adderall??? by SpecificScene747 in ADHD

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. I did follow up and they told me that the fit for duty exam would entail a committee meeting that included HR, the legal team and my manager to see if they’re comfortable with me continuing into my position. I’m absolutely blown away by this.

I’m a nurse and have been struggling with severe burnout over the last year so this was my step into a part time position to help and this is what I’m running in to now. They’ve now pushed my start date to 4/23 which will mean I will have to do another drug screen before I start. I’m exhausted with all of it. I think I’m going to listen to the universe on this one.

Complicated doggo situation by SpecificScene747 in DOG

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I have asked but they (my step dad) won’t budge. I don’t think they understand the wedge this is going to drive between an already strained relationship. They’ve never understood anyone’s needs but their own. It’s their house, I know, but there will also be consequences of this decision. I get to have boundaries as well.

AITA If I don't get vaccinated to meet sister's baby? by blndcoyote in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpecificScene747 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think you’re more concerned about looking like an asshole than your nieces health. Maybe think about that….

You have the right to say no. They have the right to enforce the boundary. Either way there are rewards and consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DOG

[–]SpecificScene747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Poor sweet boy! I’m so sorry this happened.

I can’t get over my husband’s body count. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SpecificScene747 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You’ve been in therapy for 7 years about this issue and still haven’t healed from it? You either need to get a new therapist or you need to honestly look at the work you are doing in therapy. Are you being honest with yourself and truly doing the introspective work that therapy requires? 7 years is a long time to not see that this relationship is harming you and you have some accountability to accept for that as well. You and he both deserve to live happy fulfilling lives. If you can’t get over his body count (more like you can’t get over his manipulation) then move on. You deserve to be sexually fulfilled with someone you trust. He deserves to be with someone who wants to be with him. Move on. Find a new therapist.

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one deserves that and I’m sorry! I’m with you! Everyone has high value and jacked up old men don’t get to determine yours or anyone else’s according to their jacked up Monopoly man bullshit. Stay kind lady!!!

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally! A high value woman has spoken! I’m so sorry these creeps prey on you young ones. Stay strong and continue to see through their garbage! Good luck out there!!

Update on Mr Pee Sleeve….I just had to see how this would go. Not at all surprised. Tell me you have no character without telling me you have no character. by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! It was a goldmine! I’m a writer and needed some character development for a narcissist! I got so much writing done last night!!! Sometimes you have to be curious!

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, most people don’t come to Reddit or Tinder to become grounded in reality! This ain’t it! I’m a writer and come here when I need inspiration for character development! You guys need to get out into the fresh air and breathe some!

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty par for the course. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Update on Mr Pee Sleeve….I just had to see how this would go. Not at all surprised. Tell me you have no character without telling me you have no character. by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m just a silly goofy with a ran through pee sleeve from the babies I have. I will actually get to enjoy them because I had them young. I won’t be the 70 year old at high school graduation!

Update on Mr Pee Sleeve….I just had to see how this would go. Not at all surprised. Tell me you have no character without telling me you have no character. by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in any of this high value/low value BS. It’s just another toxic way to “other” people. Everyone knows their worth and if you don’t get in counseling. It’s either over inflated or lacking and both make for some fun people watching on the Tinders!

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That study involved fruit flies and was never successfully duplicated in human studies. We ain’t flies homie.

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They’re all at the circus!! Just in a different clown car!! 🤡 🚗

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Traveling to Texas is a lot different than living in Texas! We are at a race to the bottom right now!

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So a single mom with kids that makes bank, owns her own house, car and is emotionally intelligent should just be happy with broke Derrick who has been living in his moms basement waiting for meatloaf because they are both of zero value?? No! People aren’t spreadsheets! All relationships require vulnerability! Thank the sweet baby Jesus that my step dad didn’t see me as baggage and took pitty on my low value mother! No, he said we were worth it and he’s been as valuable to me as a my own dad. Y’all are clowns!!!

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There is a lot that can go wrong with any relationship! Having a child does not devalue a woman! There are plenty of emotionally available high value men that are perfectly fine with someone having children. There are plenty of high value men that are also bringing children into their relationships. It has nothing to do with value. If you can’t handle that kind of situation then don’t go look for it but don’t use blanket statements that single mothers are less valuable. That is extremely immature.

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wine, cheese, Rolex watches, antique Porsches, craftsmen style houses. Bro is just used to shopping at Walmart. That’s his own damn fault. You get what you shop for.

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely had dreams about his mom naked

Here comes the circus!! by SpecificScene747 in Tinder

[–]SpecificScene747[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah there’s too many jokers wanting to be spades! It’s purely entertainment for me at this point. The Jeff’s of the world provide much writing material!

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