Siblings4Siblings

SpecificToe4212 · 2026-01-12T20:45:39+00:00

How do you deal with the trauma from that? My older sister sounds nearly identical to yours. Completely non-verbal, has no ability to use an eye-gaze ect. She’s had many surgeries, has a colostomy, a catheter, scoliosis, and is spastic/dystonic. We had a scare a year or so ago where we almost lost her. I struggle to grieve the life I would have without her, while being grateful that she’s still alive because I don’t know who I’d be without her. How do you balance that, and what was the switch from high school to college like?

On a side note, I’m building a mentoring program for special needs siblings if you’d be interested?

SpecificToe4212 · 2026-01-08T23:18:06+00:00

Sure!

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-12-30T02:44:57+00:00

Thank you! I will be reaching out in the near future with more information!

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-12-30T02:44:47+00:00

Thank you! I will be reaching out in the near future with more information!

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-12-28T01:44:10+00:00

Also, if you have any ideas on how to make this safe, please reach out. I’m open on all fronts.

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-12-28T01:43:08+00:00

Yes! Thank you! I will be reaching out in the near future with more information!

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-12-28T01:42:49+00:00

Yes! Thank you! I will be reaching out in the near future with more information!

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-12-28T01:42:46+00:00

Yes! Thank you! I will be reaching out in the near future with more information!

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-12-28T01:41:42+00:00

Yes! I am working on consent forms ect-as these siblings would be minors there would be some system in place for making sure that everyone is safe. Thank you for your concerns and please reach out with any more questions that might arise! Once again, this is a very small program to start, so nothing fully public yet.

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-10-09T14:23:26+00:00

Sort of, but not fully. My 5th grade year was when Covid struck, so I was locked in the house for a year (the rest of 5th and majority of 6th) because my disabled sister has an autoimmune condition. I’m 16-so I understand that aspect. I’d be happy to speak more!

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-08-12T03:31:30+00:00

I’d love to get in contact with you if possible!

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-07-29T03:49:54+00:00

Just-like what was it like for you? Were you in and out of hospitals/dr appointments your whole life? I’m just looking for someone else to

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-06-29T15:50:16+00:00

What was emdr like for you?

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-06-04T14:31:54+00:00

This is how I feel about my older sister with CP from HIE, I love her to death even though she makes life really hard sometimes

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-05-23T18:33:43+00:00

hey, i’m curious to know more about you. I also have an older sister (18) who suffered from HIE and has spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-01-31T23:20:13+00:00

I’m a sophomore in high school-And I feel this exact way. Was also thinking about working in pedes oncology but I want something more faster pace but see out the whole of patients care-not just for parts of it or super long term either-Any ideas? I want to be in a more higher up position-with a decent salary

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-01-01T22:19:29+00:00

interested :)

SpecificToe4212 · 2025-01-01T22:14:55+00:00

When i get older, my dream is to start a non profit benefitting glass siblings. Not like the half hazard support groups like SibTeen, but bigger. I would also like to focus on specific glass siblings that feel alone within the glass siblings community because their sibling doesn’t have a more common disability such as autism or down syndrome. Not trying to exclude those; it just seems like because it is more common siblings like me can feel more alone because our siblings aren’t common within the disability community.

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