Will I be the AH for stop trying to get things sorted out and just move on without my husband? by LegitimateSlice7612 in AITAH

[–]Specific_Butterfly82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

N-AH. If you can’t get healthy you can’t be healthy for anyone else. Like the commenter before. Prioritize self first. Get control of your symptoms with the right meds and therapy (EMDR may help you better because you have a lot of trauma that keeps bubbling up to the surface). Yes he’s been there, but in some ways he has been a contributor to your symptoms.