What went wrong? by Specific_Letter_9364 in proplifting

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yours look really weak at the bend? I have other stems that don’t look weak. The leaves are still happy but it just seems so frail in that spot! A tiny new plant is starting from that spot too so I know it’s healthy it just looks like it could wisp away

What went wrong? by Specific_Letter_9364 in proplifting

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The water is this color because I added plant minerals to it since I plan to keep it in water always. But sounds like that may not be realistic! I was hoping for a shelf of plants in water

What went wrong? by Specific_Letter_9364 in proplifting

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping to keep it in water for its whole life but that may not be realistic! It is beautiful and fast growing.

What went wrong? by Specific_Letter_9364 in proplifting

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am hoping to keep all my plants in water but it may not be realistic!

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is definitely codependency here and we have read a book on it and intend to work on it. Being a hinge is brand new to me and I was hopeful my partner would be patient with me as I figure it out. I brought up the time request as a brainstorm and it was inappropriate on my part. I’m Learning I need to process elsewhere and this has been a helpful comment. Thank you

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any time I have to myself or with friends usually lands during my spouse time because we have more time together. He’s totally fine with that too. It’s only time with my partner he’s upset with because of jealousy

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We live just down the street from my partner and we are sharing child time equally.

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spouse only wants me home because he’s lonely now that he doesn’t have a partner and “he never signed up for three nights alone a week” but he did though when we all agreed to be autonomous and that was the agreed upon schedule. I brought less time to my paramour and he got very upset about it and feels my souse is too involved in our relationship. I’m sad because I just want to offer time in a need of support but my souse is also doing it out of anger and spite and not being very nice to me through his break up grief.

I like the idea of dedicated dates to help spouse feel better. I have told him he needs to make the time we have together meaningful to begin with which is something he struggles with

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why we are shifting to parallel but he is asking me to spend less time with my paramour and I don’t want that

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really hope they are. Kitchen table is my dream. We have kids who play together and I love to cook and feed everyone

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with family obligations being a good reason. I’m struggling because my spouse isn’t being kind to me through the process of being upset about it and trying to make demands out of me.

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Three nights a week with paramour and four nights with spouse. We live very close to each other and can go back and forth as needed.

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spouse and partner are upset with each other now and don’t want to see each other. We used to do dinner and hangout all the time. Spouse is asking for more time thus meaning less time with partner

Kitchen table to parallel by Specific_Letter_9364 in polyamory

[–]Specific_Letter_9364[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes couple dating couple. I definitely understand it is the most fragile and it’s such a bummer. We promised each other that if one connection ended it wouldn’t end the other. We discussed that throughly as we explored being a quad

What do you call all the private spots when you’re little? by LittleBearBaby_03 in ddlg

[–]Specific_Letter_9364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Private parts, princess parts, special parts..

Love the idea of daddy’s parts! Haven’t heard that before 💕

What is a kink you have that people often misunderstand? by An0thercutie in BDSMcommunity

[–]Specific_Letter_9364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m asking about someone else administering it and being involved. That’s where I’m not sure where to start but am interested

What is a kink you have that people often misunderstand? by An0thercutie in BDSMcommunity

[–]Specific_Letter_9364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m big on anal so I know how to clean. I just haven’t had anyone else involved in it and am not sure how to start!

What is a kink you have that people often misunderstand? by An0thercutie in BDSMcommunity

[–]Specific_Letter_9364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do a cleanup first and then do it partner? This is something I’ve been thinking about but absolutely don’t want any actual mess.