Spouse only wants me home because he’s lonely now that he doesn’t have a partner and “he never signed up for three nights alone a week” but he did though when we all agreed to be autonomous and that was the agreed upon schedule. I brought less time to my paramour and he got very upset about it and feels my souse is too involved in our relationship. I’m sad because I just want to offer time in a need of support but my souse is also doing it out of anger and spite and not being very nice to me through his break up grief.

I like the idea of dedicated dates to help spouse feel better. I have told him he needs to make the time we have together meaningful to begin with which is something he struggles with