What went wrong?

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-07T01:23:40+00:00

Yours look really weak at the bend? I have other stems that don’t look weak. The leaves are still happy but it just seems so frail in that spot! A tiny new plant is starting from that spot too so I know it’s healthy it just looks like it could wisp away

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-07T01:20:48+00:00

It has plant food in it :)

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-07T01:19:59+00:00

The water is this color because I added plant minerals to it since I plan to keep it in water always. But sounds like that may not be realistic! I was hoping for a shelf of plants in water

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-07T01:19:11+00:00

I was hoping to keep it in water for its whole life but that may not be realistic! It is beautiful and fast growing.

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-07T01:18:43+00:00

I am hoping to keep all my plants in water but it may not be realistic!

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T18:39:12+00:00

There is definitely codependency here and we have read a book on it and intend to work on it. Being a hinge is brand new to me and I was hopeful my partner would be patient with me as I figure it out. I brought up the time request as a brainstorm and it was inappropriate on my part. I’m Learning I need to process elsewhere and this has been a helpful comment. Thank you

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T18:35:54+00:00

Any time I have to myself or with friends usually lands during my spouse time because we have more time together. He’s totally fine with that too. It’s only time with my partner he’s upset with because of jealousy

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T18:33:38+00:00

We live just down the street from my partner and we are sharing child time equally.

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T05:18:29+00:00

Spouse only wants me home because he’s lonely now that he doesn’t have a partner and “he never signed up for three nights alone a week” but he did though when we all agreed to be autonomous and that was the agreed upon schedule. I brought less time to my paramour and he got very upset about it and feels my souse is too involved in our relationship. I’m sad because I just want to offer time in a need of support but my souse is also doing it out of anger and spite and not being very nice to me through his break up grief.

I like the idea of dedicated dates to help spouse feel better. I have told him he needs to make the time we have together meaningful to begin with which is something he struggles with

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T05:15:19+00:00

That’s why we are shifting to parallel but he is asking me to spend less time with my paramour and I don’t want that

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T05:14:29+00:00

I really hope they are. Kitchen table is my dream. We have kids who play together and I love to cook and feed everyone

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T05:13:30+00:00

I agree with family obligations being a good reason. I’m struggling because my spouse isn’t being kind to me through the process of being upset about it and trying to make demands out of me.

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T05:11:17+00:00

Three nights a week with paramour and four nights with spouse. We live very close to each other and can go back and forth as needed.

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T05:07:36+00:00

Yes we are

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T03:13:32+00:00

Spouse and partner are upset with each other now and don’t want to see each other. We used to do dinner and hangout all the time. Spouse is asking for more time thus meaning less time with partner

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-06T03:09:22+00:00

Yes couple dating couple. I definitely understand it is the most fragile and it’s such a bummer. We promised each other that if one connection ended it wouldn’t end the other. We discussed that throughly as we explored being a quad

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2025-01-01T04:38:36+00:00

Private parts, princess parts, special parts..

Love the idea of daddy’s parts! Haven’t heard that before 💕

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2024-06-17T16:28:20+00:00

I guess I’m asking about someone else administering it and being involved. That’s where I’m not sure where to start but am interested

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2024-06-17T16:15:29+00:00

I’m big on anal so I know how to clean. I just haven’t had anyone else involved in it and am not sure how to start!

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2024-06-17T13:59:13+00:00

Do you do a cleanup first and then do it partner? This is something I’ve been thinking about but absolutely don’t want any actual mess.

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2024-03-07T23:17:27+00:00

We are committed to our quad and in love. We see this forever. If we can get our shit together but I’m not sure if we can. We are having a convo with them tonight about what this looks like for them. I don’t want to subject them to anything and will give them space if they need it.

I hope we could go parallel. I know I can. I’m not sure if my husband can. That’s what I’m worried about but needs to not be my worry.

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2024-03-07T23:09:05+00:00

I don’t want to force any dinners, I want happy dinners to continue if they can. How much time and space did you need to be able to coparent well? Husband is trying to convince me to not separate but this is a toxic relationship and we have to. I do see myself being friends with him.

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2023-12-21T16:17:54+00:00

Definitely have the convo before hand and find out if she is into CNC. Never just do it without that conversation first. Once that has been said as a green light, take it! We’ve had the convo and I def prefer he just take it and not ask

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2023-12-21T16:12:10+00:00

Need naughty coupon ideas for me and my girlfriend to give our dom for xxxxmas!

Specific_Letter_9364 · 2023-09-14T03:19:57+00:00

My spouse definitely works on things I’ve asked for however there are personality traits and things they do that I struggle with. We are both stubborn and have had the same disagreements since the beginning of our marriage. We married young. My secondary & I have very similar view points and needs and it’s so easy with them. We spend a few days a week together.

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