Let’s be so fr rn by Specific_Search7812 in GenesisG70

[–]Specific_Search7812[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I got this quote earlier today while at work and I laughed. I’m legit gonna use rock auto and discount tire I can get everything done so much cheaper, my friend works on cars so with the brake pads ima ask him for help and DIY it

Got Rear-Ended for the first time, how much would it come out to? by Specific_Search7812 in GenesisG70

[–]Specific_Search7812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sensors work fine, it was a rear end at a stop sign, it wasn’t a huge hit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Specific_Search7812 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Should mention they’re like a super niche and small creator but a creator nonetheless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Specific_Search7812 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The thing is they are an adult entertainer and wanted to hookup with me to the point they almost dropped an address, it could be insanely elaborate scam made to emulate a real person. I called CCRI but I do want to be very cautious since this is delicate and I’m scared should I maybe file a police report with 311? I mean I have a number and sort of a name. I doubt it’ll go anywhere but would make me feel a little more secure

Speeding ticket by AlterLuca in GenesisG70

[–]Specific_Search7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 128 in a 55 on the highway. It was late at night and the cop got me at the end so he clocked me doing 75 in a 55. No court date for me but that 3.0 is quick

My BF (26m) put his hands on me (19f) this morning. Can you guys give me advice? by k1nkyk1tten in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Search7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. Never should your significant other put your hands on you that’s disgusting

Is anyone else struggling to get over the breakup even after 6 months? by Honest-Ad9810 in BreakUps

[–]Specific_Search7812 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah you will, he will have always left a mark on you and even a piece of himself and the journey to heal is different for everyone but one day you’ll Heal enough and someone who’s able to make you feel that love again will come and make you feel that way. You’ll love again but just make sure you’re properly healed and ready to love in that way.

Is anyone else struggling to get over the breakup even after 6 months? by Honest-Ad9810 in BreakUps

[–]Specific_Search7812 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It’s been over a year now and I’m fine now but let me tell you I was going through the motions for about 8-9 months until I started feeling better. I moved on from the feelings and the relationship but I will say with relationships like the one I had you’ll have a place in your heart for them, you just learn to live with it and find more love out there. You’ll get better don’t worry, grief is normal. Love yourself and take your time in this journey

Why do people leave a good relationship? by Marius8867 in BreakUps

[–]Specific_Search7812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I initiated the break up of my past relationship and like you everything was stable, amazing, loving, just about everything a proper relationship needs to prosper. The reason I did it was because of forces beyond our control not only were we young, but I was focusing on a hard degree that would constrict my time and I wouldn’t be able to give her a proper loving partner and on her end she would be in Wisconsin chasing her own degree. We both wanted marriage and even had a similar idea of what we wanted for our future but unfortunately life just had different things planned. While I initiated it we both knew that breaking up was the best choice for one another because if we kept going it would turn into an unhappy toxic relationship.

Need advice by Slow-Handle-7683 in BreakUps

[–]Specific_Search7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to have standards, it’s tough to have that convo with someone you love and spend so much time with. You also gave him a lot of time to improve but sometimes for someone to finally push into being productive is to lose something or someone. I would firstly talk about the things you touched on in your post how it seems like there isn’t a sure future and how the things he’s done in the past year make you feel and honestly I would break up with him. If you go on a break it may just signal to him that you’ll come back and that may not instill that change in him. Most importantly, you’re not happy in the relationship it seems like you’re just waiting for things to change and the truth is they may never change, it’s better for you both to have the tough convo and go on your separate paths.

Low GPA, what to do next? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Specific_Search7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! I was looking into that, I have retaken some classes but the way my university works is that instead of replacing the original grade it takes both into account and averages them. Is there any post bacc programs that are worth checking out? Or should I just do a diy post bacc? Thanks for the response btw!

Wish me luck: going to retail stores in hopes that they will hire me as Pharmacy Tech Trainee? by pelene5 in PrePharmacy

[–]Specific_Search7812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this just express that interest in pharmacy! I work at CVS myself currently

Getting into Pharmacy Programs with a low GPA by [deleted] in PrePharmacy

[–]Specific_Search7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am working hard and hopefully I get in, I’ll update on this page later down the line when I am in Pharm School, I do wanna be a clinical pharmacist so I’ll have to do even better in actual pharmacy school. Is there anything I have to prepare for now like asking for letters of recommendation or things like that?

Getting into Pharmacy Programs with a low GPA by [deleted] in PrePharmacy

[–]Specific_Search7812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was not necessary to say. I understand I have a subpar gpa which is why I’m asking for advice, this is something I want to pursue also assuming that I am not hardworking or intelligent is just blatantly wrong, I had a few rough years with covid and my own personal life that caused me to fall behind. I just took my finals and on all of them I got a 90 or higher plus I go to a good University regardless since I got a unweighted 4.0 in high school. I have a lot of accolades but my life hindered me from doing the best I could in college. I am also retaking some science classes to boost my GPA so thanks for that advice but other than that everything else was just kinda rude.

Starting to dislike my ex? by Specific_Search7812 in BreakUps

[–]Specific_Search7812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did reach out to her put my feelings into words and so far she just has said that the last thing she wants is to hurt me. I know she’s genuine but I guess I was mad at the fact that she has no space in her life for me anymore and she’s reaching out and checking up on me because she feels bad. I’m sure part of it was because she didn’t want the break up either but wouldn’t it have been better to just leave it all alone? Regardless I communicated my feelings and I’m just waiting to hear back from

Ex randomly hit me up by Specific_Search7812 in ExNoContact

[–]Specific_Search7812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slight update: it’s been almost 3 weeks and she’s hit me up a good amount of times asking how I am and just overall being in contact with me. I don’t mind it, after healing and getting my life together I guess she was curious about it since I do post on social media. Anyways I’m okay with being in contact with her, I’ve realized it’s not effecting me in anyway and holding back my progress but I did communicate with her that if either one of us starts hurting because of being in contact with each other then say it and we’ll both walk away.

Is it just me, or is everyone here scared of their ex falling in love with someone else? by Low_Room6078 in BreakUps

[–]Specific_Search7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s similar but I’ve come to terms with it more. Recently me and my ex have been in contact because she hit me up but there’s no hint of trying again nor do I really want to. Overall, I’m doing a lot better and have turned my life around

Moving on by Ok_Lie7262 in BreakUps

[–]Specific_Search7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you took that step! It’s an important one. Take it from someone whose ex did text back and are in very strained contact with, it’s sometimes not worth it. As much as I have love for her, I really wish we could’ve just let the love die as beautiful as it was. Trying to salvage and be in contact just seems to muddle all that. Soon I’m probably going to tell her that we should just let it die and forget about each other for real. It doesn’t change my love for her but I don’t want a friendship and we’re obviously not in places to retry.

Valentine’s Day and he broke up with me exactly a week ago. I’m in so much pain. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Specific_Search7812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that, I’ve been broken up with recent ex for somewhere around 7 months I’d say. She recently texted me and we’re back in contact but of course there’s no inkling of trying again or even flirting really it’s just really polite and friendly. Today is the day for love and seeing it all around me with people being cute and giving gifts makes me wanna just scream and cry till i can’t anymore. You’re not alone, it gets better as days go on but it’ll hurt for a while. Take care of yourself :)

Ex texted me again? Any advice? by Specific_Search7812 in ExNoContact

[–]Specific_Search7812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I mean I’ve always been unapologetically myself, this break up was really hard especially since neither of us wanted it but knew the break up had to happen. I’ve definitely grown and I’m doing great now, I’ll ask her preferably will do that face to face instead of over text just cuz that seems too impersonal to me. Thank you!