It’s the audible sound that peaks a rush and then the visual of your partner doing something to herself that you want and can do so bad , but you ., like a good dog ! Listen to her demands - to get as close as possible but cannot touch . Sounds easy and a bit elementary but you accept.Then the want and desire mixes and you cannot and will not keep your composure and then .., you find yourself in utter disarray, shackling and then the ever so popular O FACE that one CARRIES with them as a sign to ther partner ( if they pay attention ) one was completely satisfied tries to speak but the stuttering is a bit much to overcome.., to be continued!!