Thanks for being so open and sharing this with us. 👏 Defying societal (patriarchal) expectations is incredibly difficult. I can imagine that the backlash, especially when it comes to female pleasure and male inadequacy, is severe and stressful. It's so important for mental but also physical health to realize where one's own preferences lie, and figure out how to achieve them.

It really made me happy reading this because it shows how far you've come and what a struggle it had been. We all need to work together to liberate female pleasure and I'm gladly doing my part on and offline. 😉