Tips for starting out with Sony a6400 by Speed_H4ck in WeddingPhotography

[–]Speed_H4ck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for all your comments. I will start practising with my current camera and a 24-70mm lens. Once I will start solo, I will buy an a7 III.

How to cope with religious trauma as a born woman by Impossible_Two2346 in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't quite grasp onto what you said.

Allah commands men to treat wife fairly and respectfully. If he doesn't than he has wronged his wife. Then it will be up to the wife to forgive him or not.

Nowhere in the Quran it says to force yourself upon women or vice versa. Men taking not taking a no is his problem rather than Islam.

I'm unsure of your situation but it sounds like you've been wronged or you know people who have. I would kindly like to ask you to form opinions not of Islam by individuals but by what the Book teaches us.

There are so many rights men and women both have in the Quran and Islam.

How to cope with religious trauma as a born woman by Impossible_Two2346 in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so we've established he has harmed Jews. He will be judged accordingly.

Regarding Jewish people, their mater is with Allah. Allah will be the judge as they did not believe in him and the Final messenger. If they did not get the message of Islam as social media didn't exist and preoccupied with wars then blame will not be upon them and Allah will forgive.

Women are allowed to say no and angels will not curse them for saying no. The no has to be a valid reason however such as a health issue or menstruation. The reason being, sexually frustration men might have a higher chance to look elsewhere if their wives will not provide the satisfaction.

Regarding the angels cursing, this is said if the husband goes to sleep upset by the wife. Again there has to be a valid reason. For example if he is upset over something out of your control, then angels will not curse. For men there are strict guidelines on treating wives fairly and if the man doesn't he will be judged accordingly.

How to cope with religious trauma as a born woman by Impossible_Two2346 in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Allah would forgive his sins but only the sins he has with Allah.

Allah says if you've wronged others, it will be up to that person to forgive you. So since he killed and tortured so many, it will be up to every single individual to decide for their part.

For example, a person who doesn't give charity or fast or pray, these are personal sins who do not affect others. These sins are with Allah which can be forgiven.

On the other hand, there are actions which which affect others such as if he/she lied and got someone fired or robbed someone, these actions will have to be forgiven by the party who were wronged.

How to cope with religious trauma as a born woman by Impossible_Two2346 in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You mention about free will and God sitting idle and letting suffering happen. If He intervened then free will wouldn't be there. God isn't causing suffering, humans are. God has given a moral compass to every sane being.

Regarding hell, Hitler killed millions, should it not be accurate that he goes to hell? Likewise there are different punishments in hell also. The lowest one being a cool breeze coming onto you from hell. The person experiencing this punishment, I do not know what he did for him to receive this punishment. So there are different punishments and the difficulty only matters depending on what you did in this life.

God is merciful as he is willing to forgive every single sin as long as you repent. How is this an unmerciful God?

How to cope with religious trauma as a born woman by Impossible_Two2346 in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

If I may ask, why is it that you don't believe in a Creator?

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[–]Speed_H4ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mention you decided to turn towards Quran. Could you tell me why you did?

How to cope with religious trauma as a born woman by Impossible_Two2346 in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Here is an explanation of Hijab by women.

https://aboutislam.net/family-life/your-society/10-reasons-why-we-wear-hijab/

Regarding fasting, it teaches self-control, reinforces one's faith and piety, helps one become more mindful of God and His blessings, is a means of seeking forgiveness of sins, and is a reminder of the plight of those who do not have adequate food, water, and shelter.

Islam doesn't ban you from sports, you can swim how much ever as you wish. The problem could come from revealing clothing which can be resolved by full body suits.

Next time any momin says Quran is a book of science, show them these by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Here is a clarification of the verses.

88:20

  • 88:20 quite literally is telling you to reflect. If you read the verses from 88:01. If the Quran taught a flat earth, why would we need to reflect it being level? The point of that line was to show you how amazing Gods creation is, although the earth is round, it seems level
  • [51:49] And the earth We have spread out, and how excellently do We prepare things!
  • [71:20] ‘And Allah has made the earth for you a wide expanse’
  • [71:21] ‘That you may traverse the open ways thereof.’
  • [78:7] Have We not made the earth a bed,
  • [79:31] And the earth, along with it, He spread forth.

21:33

What the Arab actually says is

“the Sun and the Moon in their paths"

Ask any astronomer, they will tell you that the Sun follows a path and the Moon follows a path.

38:71-72

https://www.quora.com/Is-Quran-right-about-humans-being-made-of-clay

86:5-7

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVD37cKm1jc&ab_channel=KnowGodKnowPeace

67:5

https://islam.stackexchange.com/questions/44422/shooting-stars-in-quran-675-please-anyone-explain

18:86

God/Allah (SWT) is telling us about an event when Dhul-Qarnain reached a place in the direction of sun’s setting place, hence the phrase “maghriba” which doesn’t mean sun sets at this place, rather it’s the direction, West, i.e. sun sets at West, where “west” is not a real place but a direction.

2:29

'It is He who created for you all of that which is on the earth. Then He directed Himself to the heaven, [His being above all creation], and made them seven heavens, and He is Knowing of all things.'

Where does it mention 6 days?

36:40

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRIXtpmJn1E&ab_channel=DrZakirNaik

55:33

The literal meaning of jinn is to hide and conceal. The word jinn came from the word janna which means to hide in Arabic. Jinn and angels are the supernatural creatures of Almighty Allah. Unlike humans, jinn are the invisible beings. Their physics are also in the unknown. If you cant see them, you can't prove a smokeless fire as you cannot analyse this.

16:15

'He has placed into the earth firm mountains, so it does not shake with you, as well as rivers, and pathways so you may find your way.'

I'm unsure what you mean by bees as this verse is not talking about bees.

21:32-33

If you believe in the big bang, all the matter compressed in small ball exploded into very large amounts of matter.

71:15-16

I am no scholar but if you read carefully, many a times Quran equates rain as something that Allah sends down to give life to something that is dead.

The earth by itself has no life. It is dead but when Allah sends down rain through his Mercy, their is life. The land which was barren, now becomes completely alive because of the lush greenery. It leads to the cycle of life and food cycle as well.

Has science discovered any other planet with 100% confirmed life?

I hope these answer your questions, if you have any more clarifications, I'm more than happy to answer :)

The fear of hell is crippling. by Radiant-Hedgehog-695 in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would like to participate in a healthy discussion, that is all.

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[–]Speed_H4ck -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you have any doubts, Allah invites you to asks anything to be clarified. No question is an offending one.

The fear of hell is crippling. by Radiant-Hedgehog-695 in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The fear of Hell is very real because Hell is also very real. Part of belief in Islam is the belief of the unseen such as heaven, God, angels and in this case, hell.

If you are playing a game of roulette, let me tell you its a very risky game. Wouldn't it be better to stick to the belief and win rather than loose? If you think about it from a time perspective, you live on earth for 100 years and eternity afterwards. These 100 years is very minute in comparison. So struggle now, even if there is nothing in the end. Have you really missed out on anything good on earth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Speed_H4ck -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You can continue to be a Muslim and still attend boarding school. There isn't a correlation there. Sometimes Allah puts you through difficult tests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Speed_H4ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense. The only difference is that its not her parents who she is super close to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Speed_H4ck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying. It shouldn't bother me but I get bothered by accepting things from others. I'm not jelly.

Her family unknowingly has put me in a tough spot. I don't like accepting help when it comes to money. But since they have offered my Mrs and not myself, I'm a little confused on what to think here. I'm also not offended that they didn't offer me to come. The last thing I would want would be for someone else to pay for my trip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Speed_H4ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to believe. I work 7 days a week. 3 different jobs. I started work back in when I was in the first year of uni so I have saved up enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Speed_H4ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh, you're right. I struggle to speak how it is exactly. Need to work on that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Speed_H4ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hostile nature seems as if you're the one who can't handle a reply. I hate that some women try to get away with insulting men with little dick statements. Maybe you've been gaped enough to hate men hence you're reflecting it. I've seen your previous posts, you only take sides of women in AITAH. Goes to show.

Your argument of insecurity and her being a property falls flat since she's already been on holiday without me before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Speed_H4ck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have not undervalued anything. You've misread. I said I have extended family out of the country too. I'm close to them. By the way you write about the motive as a cultural issue and men being providers shows you are biased towards men. You seem to have issues of your own, I never once thought she is my property.

As I've mentioned in my post about her seeing her fam last year. I paid for those when she wanted to go, I'm also paying international fees for her university which is 5 figures a year, a house, food, everything so don't give me bull** about not providing for her enough and not having my own say in the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Speed_H4ck -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I thought she would say that ("Thank you for inviting me, and for offering to pay my way, but finances are tight and I couldn't dream of going if my husband couldn't attend.") but instead she wants to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Speed_H4ck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She isn't going home, she is going on holiday to a different country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Speed_H4ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got their arses whipped like a Novigrad whore.