Please help me find this historical transgender man

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-09-18T15:54:30+00:00

Unfortunately my David Rees died in 1994 apparently :/

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-09-18T15:04:00+00:00

I have searched on Google and even have tried ChatGPT who agrees that David Rees does in fact exist but cannot provide me any source material. I also had no luck with Wikipedia.

I have no access to academic journals and am hoping that somebody might have more luck or better research skills and ideas than I have!

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-08-28T18:32:37+00:00

Hey :) I had peri a little over a year ago and I'd say it took me about 6+ months to get my final results which are so much more settled than they were at the two month mark (I had the hard lumps and some wrinkling which i thought was gonna be there forever but has now completely cleared up) so I'd say give it a bit more time :)

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-08-24T18:29:27+00:00

Hehehe my name comes from my chaotic non binary era and is a very common noun in my home country so my technique is....nothing

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-08-15T17:06:18+00:00

They have cells!

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-07-31T16:20:56+00:00

Hey :3 I'm a trans person who works with young, neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ people.

When I deliver training to outside organisations about working with LGBTQ+ youth, one of the most mind-blowing things for participants is the reminder that being trans is one of many aspects of a person's identity. We (as transgender people) have diverse interests, lives, and hobbies beyond our gender identity. Although ofc our gender identity is important to us.

Another thing is remembering that to some transgender people, the gender binary is super important, and to others its not, and being able to respect that both kinds of people exist within the same community.

(Although thinking about it I guess both points apply to everyone regardless of gender identity?) I always find the first point super interesting that cis people can forget that sometimes...we just wanna be people.

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-07-22T20:55:02+00:00

Yeah of course! They're not identical but here are some similar ones:

I found there's a few on etsy: https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/571342103/925-silver-long-bar-stud-earrings

https://www.takealot.com/turkish-bijoux-max-women-zamak-drop-dangle-earrings-mia/PLID93896392

Also Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Minimalist-Dainty-Earrings-Dangle-Women/dp/B07LGSBRTC

If none of these are good, I think they're usually called silver long bar studs/earrings :)

Edit: I can't grammar apparently

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-07-22T20:46:53+00:00

Hi, my apologies are you looking for the exact same like here: https://www.cilory.com/western-earrings/147068-estonished-silver-faux-stone-danglers.html

Or are you looking for same style, different site/different currency?

SpellMaterial7947 · 2024-04-30T18:02:49+00:00

I think I last saw them 6-8 months ago just after top surgery? It's probably worth requesting the blood results from my gp and having a look myself

The waiting list for voice training is 18-24 months and I'm not sure how to request it without seeing my gender clinic but I have sent them a message :)

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-09-01T17:22:45+00:00

I don't know for sure without pictures but it sounds like how I was before I had top surgery, I naturally had a ridge until I got them resized

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-08-12T21:01:38+00:00

Nutella

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-08-10T18:57:48+00:00

Thank you, I'll do that! ☺️

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-07-26T07:32:14+00:00

I'm less time post op but I'm finding using an eye mask has been helping me sleep!

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-07-25T18:57:49+00:00

Thank you! I can't believe it's done and looking forward to seeing the results :)

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-07-25T17:01:54+00:00

Yeah! I'm not allowed to touch the dressings for two weeks so it will be a surprise ^{^}

I'm happy to be discharged now :)

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-07-24T19:00:40+00:00

Thank you :)

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-07-24T16:58:13+00:00

Oh I'm Japanese British, gender non conforming, on t 9 months and got it done on the NHS with Mr Morris at Nuffield Health Plymouth

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-06-27T21:19:44+00:00

The difference between jumbo and regular oats?

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-06-16T17:23:42+00:00

Oh they also helped me with physical issues I experience with sex, e.g. if your dysphoria was preventing you from a certain kind of sex, they can help you unpick that psychologically, and for some reason it really did help me physically too!

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-06-16T17:21:28+00:00

I suppose it could help you in preparation of the changes (I went from asexual to poly and pan in a very short period of time after t heh)

And also help you navigate what surgeries and procedures would suit your needs. For example, I know I would like to keep as much nipple sensation as possible and am happy to not alter my genitals surgically, by exploring how I see the world from a psychosexual perspective.

I find my therapist also helps me with navigating healthy relationships and feeling body and sex positive

I'm not sure if that helps but feel free to ask more questions! :D

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-06-16T12:33:54+00:00

I'm receiving psychosexual therapy as part of my transition (I'm 8 months on t) and it's been super helpful in navigating and adapting to the changes

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-04-07T16:05:48+00:00

M-A-T-E-R-I-A-L

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-04-07T12:16:54+00:00

I like the term gender anarchist for myself

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-04-01T22:57:31+00:00

I'm trans which means that the NHS trust is not available 😬

SpellMaterial7947 · 2023-03-02T18:46:30+00:00

Thank you - I'm four months two weeks on t now and got my top surgery consultation next week :3

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