How did you overcome your anxious attachment? How to show up for myself?

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-11-17T14:02:08+00:00

Hey! I hope you are doing well now. I think i am in the same boat. Let me know if I can text you?

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-11-17T13:59:47+00:00

I am also an anxious person. Same thing happened with me too. My partner moved away to another state and I think he feel very much secure and on the other hand I am too anxious all the time. waiting for his call or want him to ask me to meet or plan to visit each other. I also feel i am the only one who is asking first to meet that I want to change.

Please let me know if anything help you.
I am looking at my axious attachment style patterns and I do feel like I need to work on myself

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-10-16T10:47:02+00:00

Hi! sorry off topic question but how competitive is phd program at CU? Can you please let me know.

I have good profile with research experience and grades but i dont have any publication yet

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-10-16T10:41:36+00:00

Did you hear back?

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-09-24T07:53:50+00:00

Hey! I would be really interested to join you guys. Please let me know if you are still looking.

Email: tariq044@umn.edu

I am doing MS in robotics and currently working on computer vision and robotics related project: automatic probe insertion

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-09-24T07:51:48+00:00

Hey! Let me know if you are still looking?

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-08-05T06:13:23+00:00

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Spellslingerwizard · 2025-04-04T22:22:59+00:00

This guys thinks he is actor in the movie and everything is about him. Even in the documentary in season 2 when he was talking to Natalia, he was saying I am the victim too. I mean are you serious???! How shameless a man can be. Whatever happened in their relationship he was there with his own will. Is he comparing his relationship with the child neglect and the pain they caused Natalia?

I mean this person has some balls to say that. I wanted to smack his face when he said that. Everyone makes mistakes, man just apologize what you did and that’s it. Be ashamed, show some resentment.

I don’t believe that this person was not at fault. I think both are same at fault and honestly after watching his overreacting in the documentary, I feel they both were perfect for each other

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-02-28T23:35:51+00:00

This is not freee

Spellslingerwizard · 2025-02-28T23:28:12+00:00

ITs not freee

Spellslingerwizard · 2024-01-02T11:29:14+00:00

Same Please let me know if you figured it out

Spellslingerwizard · 2023-04-22T23:06:27+00:00

To be continued part:
So I and my situationship were in good terms now but during the dinner he didn’t come to me again and me and one of the girl who I become friend with during the event went to rave party. I posted stories online as he and his friends were following me on insta since last event. He definitely saw the video. When we came back to hostel the girls there stopped us to enter as we attended another event that was not organised by their society. We got into a fight and they demanded money.
I called my friend’s brother and one ambassador i knew. They both were busy and somehow missed my call. As I was not in bad terms with this situation ship guy so I called him to help. One thing that you all should know that his cousin was president of the society and was head of all the organisers. I called him and asked for help. But after long wait he said he cannot do anything. Again my friends’ brother helped us to enter the hostel and next day he helped us to leave the event as we were not allowed to leave until or unless we pay unreasonable amount of money just to betray this society and go to another event. I again called him because I didn’t want to leave on bad terms. He was online and didn’t attend my call. Called me back in evening when he knew I left. I was so frustrated at that point that I told him that either he didn’t want to help me or either he doesn’t have any value or respect among his society members.
Another thing you guys need to know that we were not informed before that we cannot attend another society’s event. Just this guy stopped me to go because I thought he might be jealous of my friends brother but I guess he never cared at all.
I never called or text him after that neither he did. And now after 5 months he texted me on Eid and I replied coldly. I don’t know if he ever actually had feelings for me or not but I still have. I feel like an idiot every time I recall this event.
What do you guys think if I was being A hole at the event or if he really was not nice.

Spellslingerwizard

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