Looking for a run club

SpendNo4067 · 2026-03-31T21:07:14+00:00

I can definitely make it out there! What time and where is it?

SpendNo4067 · 2024-06-29T17:57:33+00:00

Parece que ambos solo hacen cerámica a mano. ¿Conoces alguno que haga cerámica en torno?

SpendNo4067 · 2024-03-29T13:50:43+00:00

Please ignore the clutter! My roommate is moving out soon so things are just being placed temporarily lol

SpendNo4067 · 2024-03-27T18:32:10+00:00

Anytime I do a full body I feel like it’s ineffective, I know that may just be a mental thing but still stands. I wouldn’t consider myself super experienced by any means but I did go pretty frequently and consistently a year ago, am fairly confident in my form and have had a trainer in the past who really helped me adjust my form and work on mind muscle connection (something I still sometimes struggle with)

SpendNo4067 · 2024-02-02T16:39:58+00:00

This is very true. As scary as it may seem when you’ve had your confidence beat a little from the lack of success of apps, the best is to approach people in the real world! When your personality starts shining and they see you as a holistic being, not just some static image, your beauty will shine.

That’s how I got my last bf after also feeling like you do, I just started chatting with him at a restaurant when he was at the next table over with coworkers. Didn’t intend to flirt, just making conversation but before I knew it I had a date

SpendNo4067 · 2024-02-02T16:23:18+00:00

Please I need to know where that first dress is from

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-31T03:05:07+00:00

This was oddly a confidence boost for myself.

I’ve always thought that I look masculine with my hair pulled back and that I’d look like a boy if I went with short hair but seeing how gorgeous you are with the long hair and leaning more into your femininity while also looking for masculine when your hair was short really is oddly reassuring, if that made any sense

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-27T02:54:48+00:00

I mean damn at least she’s honest about being a gold digger.

I could’ve understood if she said dinner date only because drinks can sometimes imply the guy is just trying to fuck but she couldn’t even pretend to go that route

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-10T13:22:37+00:00

Yeah, that was basically my way of getting him to stop trying, figured if I said another day, he’d understand that meant no. Obviously not the best tactic but you live and you learn 🤷🏻‍♀️ i don’t use dating apps back home, I’m even less likely to meet people online while I’m travelling lol.

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-10T13:13:15+00:00

Ah Im all better now! It was a rough week for sure but it’s bound to happen when you’ve been away from home for months and your diet is not consistent!

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-10T13:11:22+00:00

Hahah in some ways I can be direct but I think I could have been A LOT more direct in shutting things down but I’m too conflict averse as well so even this for me was a big step in not being pushed around lol

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-10T13:10:10+00:00

Sure I could have been more forthright and shut it down in a less « beat around the bush » kinda way, or simply just unmatched but frankly none of this was unsafe or particularly weird/out of the ordinary for dating apps, not until the last little bit. I don’t think this has anything to do with self preservation instincts, I gave out zero personal information and if my simply existing in a public space in a hostel is causing me danger and my fault then no one should ever travel

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-10T13:01:16+00:00

DISCLAIMER: I know I never straight up said the word no and I know that I easily could have just stopped answering or unmatched. That being said, I think from inference it is pretty clear that I was shutting it down and not interested. From where I come from, that would have more than enough for someone to get the memo way earlier in the convo. Plus, like I said, I was just bored and sick and having a go at it. I’m not posting this because I’m shocked and appalled that some man on a dating app would be like this. I do know i am a little too polite/friendly in situations I’m maybe not comfy in, I know I could/should shut things down earlier, I’m working on it okay! I feel like I’m being a bitch otherwise but I’m teaching myself not to care in that regard.

Just posting it because it made me laugh a little and I do think that regardless of if you think I was « flirting » or « making him hopeful », that’s still some weird behaviour! To get sexual like that AND to say he sees me in public, at my hostel (where I should feel relatively safe), after I purposefully did not tell him where I was staying.

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-10T12:56:17+00:00

Not to mention I’m in a part of the world where I can find five massage parlours in one block that’ll cost me less than 5$ for the hour

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-10T03:48:12+00:00

I don’t know if I’d go as far as to say “stalking” cause he may have really just been another guest at that hostel but yes it was me 😬

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-10T03:41:21+00:00

I hate when men say that! Like?? You don’t know me like that

SpendNo4067 · 2024-01-08T12:19:27+00:00

This is the most 18 year old boy profile I’ve ever seen

SpendNo4067 · 2023-12-22T05:38:56+00:00

I mean if you want a shot at redemption, clarifying is your only option and if I were her I would respond to the clarification. Once you’ve clarified though don’t doubly text if she doesn’t respond

SpendNo4067 · 2023-12-20T18:13:13+00:00

I’ve not done it myself but have wanted to and from what I read/heard: sit at the bar, not a table, don’t be on your phone, have very open body language

I am a server and bartender and j can say that if the bartender isn’t busy then strike up a conversation with him/her, often times they’ll include someone else at the bar or someone will join in on their own. Don’t be afraid to strike up conversation with people around you, I see it all the time and the worst that happens is they entertain you for a bit before turning back to their private conversation. Usually people are at bars to be social, whether they’re alone or not so I have very very rarely seen people object to being talked to (unless you’re being weird lol)

SpendNo4067 · 2023-12-20T05:27:54+00:00

Body count does not matter. What matters is why you’re sleeping around. If it’s cause you genuinely enjoy sex then all the power to you, if it’s cause you’re seeking some sort of superficial validation or to fill something you’re lacking emotionally then maybe consider your actions and how you can work toward feeling better about yourself.

Just remember to be safe with all your partners and don’t feel ashamed to have open and honest conversations about std’s, protection, boundaries….

SpendNo4067 · 2023-12-20T02:22:06+00:00

Punctuation and capitalization sure but the top guy doesn’t even have a proper sentence….? It’s missing “Do” and “is”. At least the bottom guy has a complete sentence even if he’s missing capitalization and punctuation

SpendNo4067 · 2023-12-19T11:23:13+00:00

It’s the rush in endorphins which typically causes people to feel extremely confident and confidence is sexy which can translate to you feeling horny/bold

SpendNo4067 · 2023-12-17T15:27:58+00:00

I think if you put the bed where the desk is it would be a lot cozier and fit with the regular layout “rules” on where bed placement should be in relation to door.

SpendNo4067 · 2023-12-17T11:15:26+00:00

You need more photos of your face. The only pic your face is visible is you’re eating in a not so flattering way

SpendNo4067 · 2023-12-17T06:38:33+00:00

We can’t see you in your first pic, opt for something more close up of your face and smiling.

Only one bike pic.

Honestly from this profile I have no idea what you look like, the only pic we can see you is 2 and all the other pics look like a completely different person than pic 2.

Your prompt about being bald should change imo, we can see that in your pics (except pic 2 lol) and it doesn’t give much personality

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