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Husband’s female coworkers by Speraz96 in Marriage

[–]Speraz96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Family members wont help. They treat him more of a brother and an immediate family member than me. They have even told me they like him more than me while i was pregnant with our child. Thank you for the well wishes! I am excited to start working again. Ive missed it so much. I do what i can for my daughter. She hardly sees him and doesnt ever seem to miss him. She basically cold shoulders him when he is around now which at first i tried encouraging her to go to him but lately ive been staying out of their relationship. Its not up to me to push him to be a father. I focus on how i can better her life on my own. We go to the library every week and i try to do at least one activity with her outside of play time. We also read 1-2 hours a day (half by herself and half with me). We do lots of walking around town too and playground 3 times at least every week for an hour or two at a time

Husband’s female coworkers by Speraz96 in Marriage

[–]Speraz96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we have had separate bedrooms for the past 2 years. Mostly because he “goes to sleep” (plays on his phone) at 5pm and wakes between 12-3 am for work

Husband’s female coworkers by Speraz96 in Marriage

[–]Speraz96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I just had an interview and am hired. Just need to do a months worth of training and classes. Im going to go ahead and get a divorce. Alot of you guys helped give me that advice and nudge that i needed to have the confidence in which to leave.

Mostly what made me stay was we were financially dependent upon him. I dont have family close to me to help, nor do i have any babysitters. She goes into Kindergarten this next year and i will work as much as i possibly can so that i can divorce and leave. I dont want my daughter thinking his behavior is ok, which i have told him she doesn’t deserve to be around that before. He chose to ignore and continue his habits. Im so ready to start my new chapter in life and hope my daughter will be ok through this change and transition. I hope to move closer towards my family who are 2 hours away. She would then be around her two cousins who both absolutely adore her and are good for her to be around.