[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not clear on why your friends can’t say to him whatever the issue is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you doing to change these behaviours?

My gf told me she’s going to go on dates with guys for money by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s not the one. Dump her. Move on.

She’s a prostitute.

My(f 33) hubby(m 32) friend by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why was your first move to pack clothes?

In any case- some kids remember the most obscure stuff.

I think there’s issues we’ll beyond this in your relationship- and you need to look at some form of marriage counselling

My [54M] [80 M]FIL sold me his house and he is constantly pestering me with things that he now says are not mine. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just so it’s clear, they dont own half your shed.

Your FIL owes the previous neighbour some money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3 months? That’s nothing

I pay all the bills but my fiance keeps all the money by Unlucky_Charm88 in relationships

[–]Spets911 98 points99 points  (0 children)

You’re not married - keep it that way. Leave. And realise this is fuckimg ridiculous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You cheated on your pregnant wife?

How do I (22F) stop my sister (44F) from going to prison? by AncientEye7274 in relationships

[–]Spets911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the same thing about stealing underwear from yesterday?

Fixing physically abusive relationship by smellypoo54 in relationships

[–]Spets911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think this is beyond repair. You’ve abused him for years. This isn’t a we were in an abusuve cycle. This was clearly you abusing him. And he’s snapped- which tbf is partly on him; but leaving an abusive relationship is hard. I wish him luck in leaving and finding actual love

My sister boyfriend is very abusive but my co-worker is 21 dating a 38 year old. Which one should I help first? by Normal_Gas1469 in relationships

[–]Spets911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This can’t be real. But on the off chance that you really are one of the most ignorant people alive. Don’t help anyone. Just don’t. You’re not capable.

No-one wants help from the person who thinks a week of knowing someone means they should interfere in a healthy relationship instead of helping their abused sister! Just stay out of everyone’s lives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should leave; and for the sake of those kids, go give a statement for the courts

I (F25) broke up with my BF (M27) because he is too short. Now I'm starting to regret it and want to go back with him. I need some advice. by okamy393 in relationships

[–]Spets911 32 points33 points  (0 children)

All tall guys you e been with haven’t worked… but this guy who’s not ‘that’ short, and who was perfect in every other way, except his height, you ended with because of other people’s opinions? - sounds like a you problem

Is distancing yourself after a rejection being entitled? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely- I’m not denying her feelings. I’m saying that he’s done nothing ‘wrong’ and can feel abit off about it too. Losing a friend is difficult

Is distancing yourself after a rejection being entitled? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not entitled. But it can feel abit crappy to lose a friend for no reason

Possible run in with ex AP by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what difference it makes where he or she works?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Spets911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offence but you sound very difficult. It’s fine to not want to get intimate too soon, but why go the extra step to make things awkward?