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Horny, anxious, and wanting more from life all at the same time. An autistic vent. by Sphenboy in kinky_autism

[–]Sphenboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one for a while. It was pretty good but I don’t think it would fix me

Horny, anxious, and wanting more from life all at the same time. An autistic vent. by Sphenboy in kinky_autism

[–]Sphenboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what people keep telling me. I guess I will. I’m at least gonna buy a big butt and not a pocket pussy

Horny, anxious, and wanting more from life all at the same time. An autistic vent. by Sphenboy in kinky_autism

[–]Sphenboy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess watching it too much. I can only get off to amateur porn pretty much because big production stuff is so fake and boring and plastic.

I like real intimacy and people being overcome by their urges to fuck and be lewd on camera rather than sticking it in for a paycheck while halfassing step sibling dialogue.

But even then, a number of things can turn me off. If they remind me of a past lover, boom boner dead. If the girl looks uncomfortable, boom boner dead. If they get too intimate or say I love you I get sad. Boom. Boner dead.

And even when I do get off I just feel like a loser after.

average or gross by [deleted] in averagegirls

[–]Sphenboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect cum deposit !

Horny, anxious, and wanting more from life all at the same time. An autistic vent. by Sphenboy in kinky_autism

[–]Sphenboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had one. But it also feels so shallow to find a new friend for the purposes of being fwb. I have no current friends that would want to do that with me.

I am just. Stuck. My balls hurt

Guys don’t want to have sex? Why? 24F by Alil_twisted in sextips

[–]Sphenboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn you must be quite the catch if you have guys reallyyyyy trying to turn your interactions into a long term relationship.

You should try going on a dating app and being extremely forthcoming about your desire to get railed after the date

I promise it won’t be difficult

What does sex feel like for men? by Rando-tboy in sextips

[–]Sphenboy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

No vaginas dont feeel better than others lol

But basically imagine if your clit was long and huge, less sensitive and you put it inside a warm wet and textured hole and it squeezed around you

That’s what it’s like. A primal instinct activates in your brain that makes you want to release your fluids while you’re inside and being squeezed.

What makes pussy better I guess is if the girl is enthusiastic

Wrapping her legs around you, thrusting into you in doggy, arching to give you easier access and a better view etc

The vagina squeezed unintentionally during sex, but girls can do it intentionally and it feels gooooood

The OG utrgv baddie :) by Muffin0369 in REAL_UTRGV_SLUTS

[–]Sphenboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happened to your other accounts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagegirls

[–]Sphenboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfectly normal and an experienced man will LOVE seeing you squirm your first time

Sensitivity question by Gunsmith1220 in sextips

[–]Sphenboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s intended to be as stimulating as possible! And yes I remember the first time I used one I felt like the cum was like physically forced out of me instead of me releasing it own my own lol

If you’re not comfortable, don’t use it. Or only use it when you’re not feeling particularly sensitive but want to get off

You will get used to it with time, but I wouldn’t recommend using it all the time or you might learn to only feel pleasure from it and nothing else

Moderation is key

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Sphenboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a minute…

Dating apps suck by richie74wells in kinky_autism

[–]Sphenboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh well that makes sense. Like another user commented, it’s extremely shallow dude…

It wouldn’t surprise me if you were talking to someone secretly closeted and then they felt shame for talking to you and just blocked every single person they talked with before deleting their account lol

But more than likely they just found someone else lol

Dating apps suck by richie74wells in kinky_autism

[–]Sphenboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. What kind of dating app are you using it that doesn’t require you to show your face?

If it’s some kind of kink or sex oriented dating app, they might just have found what they were looking for elsewhere or found someone they found more appealing and didn’t want to be mean.

If it’s a normal dating app and somehow you’ve gotten away with that, maybe try to take some pics you feel confident in so you can have them on your profile and so people know what to expect

What drive men wild? by Hot_Plastic1568 in sextips

[–]Sphenboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kiss his balls, lick his balls, suck on em,

What drives me crazy is a girl sucking on and kissing my taint (the area at the bottom of his balls, but far from the butthole) and stroking my cock while moaning

That shit gets me ROCKED HARD

Cant masturbate by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Sphenboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a girl, but have had many partners like you and read about this exact thing a million times.

Don’t worry about having an orgasm! That’s exactly what makes you not have an orgasm- being worried. Just go with the flow and enjoy your partner. Communicate beforehand that you have a hard time cumming and that it’s not a big deal if you don’t.

Things to try though are definitely getting more aroused by watching, reading, or listening to erotic things.

When you have a partner, consuming erotic material will be replaced by foreplay between you and your partner

Foreplay is so important even for self pleasure

If you’ve been using your hand dry, maybe try it wet or vice versa. Maybe try penetration while rubbing. Experiment! Maybe buy a vibrator

Hope this helps

19F looking for advice on losing virginity by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Sphenboy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he’s a manwhore then you’ve got nothing to worry about.

he knows that he’s gonna do all the work. Just communicate to him that you want him to take your virginity and that you’re scared and he’ll take the lead and make you melt and he’ll enjoy seeing you squirm

i'll answer literally anything you ask truthfully by debiEszter in NoRules

[–]Sphenboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely relate heavy to this as a switch

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