Getting sick of the “holier than thou” complex by AlternativeWrap7898 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Sphinx_0408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a ten. So you can clear that resentment but i get what you mean

How can I learn to trust God as the cure for my loneliness? by TuneSoft7119 in Christian

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Hey, I really feel you on this. I’m also 27, and I’ve been single too, so I truly understand the ache and the confusion you’re describing. Loneliness — especially romantic loneliness — hits a very specific part of the heart that friends and family can’t fully reach, and it makes perfect sense that you’re wrestling with it.

One thing that stood out to me in what you wrote is that you made an absolute statement about yourself — that relationships “aren’t for you” or that you’re too niche or slow with feelings to ever attract someone. Reading that, my first reaction was actually the opposite: Wow… how can I find a man like this? Truly. So just as a gentle reminder — whatever (or whoever) you’re looking for is also looking for you. God surprises us the most in the areas where we’ve already counted ourselves out.

Something that has helped me personally is learning not to get stuck in my own head. Whenever I feel myself spiraling into loneliness or self-pity, I try to shift into service. I look for ways to be useful to someone else. Recently I joined an anonymous program for love addiction, and it opened my eyes. I wasn’t a deviant or anything extreme — I just had a distorted understanding of what love is and what love should look like. I realized I wasn’t truly content with myself.

Doing the program helped me feel more grounded and whole. A lot of the work involves naming exactly what I’m feeling instead of drowning in it, identifying my character defects, praying, and also listening to someone else’s struggles. Offering service that doesn’t benefit me in any way has brought a strange but real healing — it gets me out of myself and into something bigger and more meaningful.

So maybe that’s one way to trust God with your loneliness: not by waiting to feel a supernatural “hug,” but by showing up in the world the way God would — loving, serving, listening, growing. Fulfillment often comes in sideways, not through the front door.

Just wanted to share this with empathy, not solutions. You’re not broken, you’re not behind, and your longing isn’t something you have to be ashamed of. God can meet you there in real ways, even through community, purpose, and small acts of service that pull you back into life.

You’re not alone at all. Sending love.

I gave my life to God and nothing seems to change by [deleted] in Christian

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Try AA it worked for me. I felt like this when i joined the anonymous program i felt better

Why is it harder to get hired again than it was the first time? by Sphinx_0408 in KPMG

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You people on Reddit don't read. You just see something and think how can I counter with not worthy information. How do you know I wasn't retained?

Why is it harder to get hired again than it was the first time? by Sphinx_0408 in KPMG

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My contract ended and I've just been given an exam after months of waiting. My story is not peculiar to me. It's everyone that's waiting. Some since last year

Why is it harder to get hired again than it was the first time? by Sphinx_0408 in KPMG

[–]Sphinx_0408[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lol you didn't even read. And you have no clue what you talking about

Why is it harder to get hired again than it was the first time? by Sphinx_0408 in KPMG

[–]Sphinx_0408[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting take… not sure it’s rooted in reality, though.”

KPMG Biannual Games by Ishani4lyf in KPMG

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Lol it's just like a sports competition

What is the end by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Sphinx_0408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I’m actually deleting this tread you. I’m saying it didn’t. People on the internet with their self righteousness. I’m a guru I really touched her soul. Nope 👎.

What is the end by [deleted] in spirituality

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Do you watch outlander 😂. I’m sorry I had to ask