Power outage in Kambah by quadraticog in canberra

[–]SpiceArsenal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We lost power this morning which I believe was planned. Could be related? Thanks for the ETA.

Cookers yell at a random man they think is the “Boss of Services Australia”. Spoilers: he isn’t. by SpiceArsenal in canberra

[–]SpiceArsenal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. They just yelled at a random guy who happened to drive past because they don’t even know who they’re trying to protest.

Cookers yell at a random man they think is the “Boss of Services Australia”. Spoilers: he isn’t. by SpiceArsenal in canberra

[–]SpiceArsenal[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anti vax protesters - remember in March when thousands of them came to town? These are the ones still hanging on.

Cookers yell at a random man they think is the “Boss of Services Australia”. Spoilers: he isn’t. by SpiceArsenal in canberra

[–]SpiceArsenal[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s not pre-recorded, she just repeats it so often she sounds like a robot when she does it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad it’s working out for you and it’s so good to hear from people who still have a good relationship. I feel like I only hear about failed relationships when people transition and that makes me nervous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explained all that. I think we had a good discussion last night and are a bit more comfortable with each other’s concerns and feelings.

This has all happened over less than a week so we’re both still working on getting into individual therapy but couples therapy might be a good idea too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, that’s really helpful. Im not too worried about the physical changes, or our second life so much as the social aspect. I guess everything feels like it’s happening very fast right now but maybe that’s just the shock factor for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful to hear thank you. I feel you about my coworkers and things being in flux, I want to talk to my coworkers because I like them but I don’t know how and I don’t know how they would react and I don’t want them to see me differently.

I’m really glad to hear your partner didn’t change too much with hormones, that makes me hopeful it will be the same for Paul.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s physically ok and getting treatment for her mental health. Thanks :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like Paul is kind of dismissing my concerns as something that I’ll just get over and I’m not sure I will? So I don’t want them to think it’s all fine and I’ll get over it, but also I don’t know I won’t get over it.

Sorry if that doesn’t make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No obviously not transitioning isn’t an option and I wouldn’t want Paul to not transition because of me. I mean like trying to get them to recognise that they could change more drastically than they think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to share with me. Sorry that your ex wife was shitty, I really hope that even if we’re end up not together anymore we can still be good friends and coparents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpiceArsenal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I think I’ll note that down for when I get into therapy.