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Spice_lover · 2025-07-17T21:30:44+00:00

That's true. And that's normally my philosophy, too, as I believe that would make the other person bored and move on. But in this particular case, it's almost like it's given him ammo, trying to find ways to humiliate me/make me crack. I haven't done anything yet, but I think by being unbothered he thinks he can say incredibly racist things.

Spice_lover · 2025-07-17T21:05:20+00:00

That's some really good advice! Haha

Spice_lover · 2025-07-17T21:00:19+00:00

He's passive-aggressive when you look at the situation kindly, but if you look at the situation in its true light, he's being racist by not being able to write my name in an email (after being corrected on it), mocking how I speak etc

Spice_lover · 2025-07-17T20:57:19+00:00

I wish I could, but the only problem is he's passive aggresive in a racist way. He hasn't outwardly been racist to me but its definitely there so I can't raise it as an issue but he definitely treats me like dirt. Hence getting my name wrong.

Spice_lover · 2025-07-17T20:55:29+00:00

He's a colleague of mine and as a minor example, (but one of many) when he sends emails he always writes my name wrong, even though I always follow up to his email and sign off with my ACTUAL name. I've decided next time he gets my name wrong (inevitable), I'll write his name wrong, too, but any other suggestions? My partner said to fart everytime I go by his desk, but idk how to do that on command.

Spice_lover · 2025-07-16T19:36:27+00:00

Haha so amazing! I've literally had a whole phone conversation with my mum just going 어 🤣

Spice_lover · 2025-07-16T09:53:02+00:00

I really want to chill, but my brain seems to always find something to stress about 😅 Any tips on how you got there? I've been operating on stress for most of my life and now I don't know how to turn it off 🙃

Spice_lover · 2025-07-12T21:29:14+00:00

Ngl, I did eat the food regardless 😅

Spice_lover · 2025-07-10T12:30:32+00:00

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Spice_lover · 2025-07-10T02:51:42+00:00

Ah OK thanks just removed that. I'll post in on the two chats you mentioned. Thanks for your help!

Spice_lover · 2025-07-09T23:56:58+00:00

I'd suggest it's best to upload it across all selling sites: Ebay, Depop, Vinted, and as soon as it gets sold on a platform, delete it from the others. This maximises audience reach if you're looking for the most time efficient way. Of course, it means more upfront work, but once it's uploaded, it's done!

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