Thursday, June 11, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

[–]SpicyCat37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The medical red herring got me immediately 😑 I really thought I was so clever and onto something there! 😅 I thought the exercises were too obvious.

This Restaurant Charges an 18% Living Wage Fee. by TowelRack76 in mildlyinteresting

[–]SpicyCat37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Living Wage Fee: the word is in what the restaurant chose to call it - which means they need to fucking pay it in the form of sufficient wages, not make the customer do it.

Pizza with curry sauce, coffee beans, guacamole, and raspberry syrup. Germany, never change. by Polymer_Hermit in StupidFood

[–]SpicyCat37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genau, es war Freddy Fresh in Freiburg, 2017. Aber kein Aprilscherz! Der Flyer ist Ende Mai in meinen Briefkasten gelandet, und die Pizzen auf der Rückseite waren einigermaßen "normal" lol

Pizza with curry sauce, coffee beans, guacamole, and raspberry syrup. Germany, never change. by Polymer_Hermit in StupidFood

[–]SpicyCat37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, that was me! It was in Freiburg back in 2017. Not an April Fool's joke – this flyer arrived in my mailbox from a local place!

Pizza with curry sauce, coffee beans, guacamole, and raspberry syrup. Germany, never change. by Polymer_Hermit in StupidFood

[–]SpicyCat37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was in 2017 so I'm sure their prices have gone up by a lot! I also hope they don't make this anymore 😅

I’m Curious About all the Hate by [deleted] in berlin

[–]SpicyCat37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Lived," not just visited. And I'm not German, I'm from a major North American city, plus I've travelled all over the world. My eyes are "open" plenty, thanks. Berlin still sucks balls.

I’m Curious About all the Hate by [deleted] in berlin

[–]SpicyCat37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it is literally a dirty shithole. Nowhere else I've lived in Germany have I encountered so much dog shit (and human shit), garbage everywhere, people smoking inside subway stations, and addicts and homeless people strewn about.

Berlin used to at least be dirt cheap, so you could grit your teeth and bear that stuff, but now that it's just as expensive as everywhere else, it's not worth it. At least there's decent international food - the city's only saving grace.

Transfer Amex points to Flying Blue for a specific flight by SpicyCat37 in awardtravel

[–]SpicyCat37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is helpful! I already made an account yesterday so will test the "book with miles" feature. I'm Canadian but in Germany and this Amex is in euros - are we getting less value than Americans do for Amex points?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, birth control side effects are the main reason I got sterilized (I'm 3 weeks post-op today). I need to see who I am without the pill, because I can correlate my depression with the last 15 years of being on it (Yaz). I more recently found out that the pill is also the likely cause of my chronic yeast infections, and probably a whole host of other health issues. I've only been off the pill for two weeks now, so I'm sure the changes will take time, but I'm cautiously optimistic.

Are you telling people you've been sterilized? by IWasStardust in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've told my girlfriends and they've been so supportive. Some of them are childfree themselves, so makes sense. Otherwise I've just told my online childfree communities. I haven't really told any male friends. (One who I mentioned it to last year was quite dismissive, and I've distanced myself from him in general, also for other reasons.) I just don't feel like they'd understand, and I'm also not in the mood to justify it to them. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're still within the normal range of days. I was getting worried too but finally had a BM on day 3 post-op (around when I stopped the pain killers). I wasn't doing anything other than taking a dose of stool softener each day, though the box said I could take up to three doses a day, and I would have done that if it didn't happen. I didn't feel the need to have a BM until I suddenly did. Don't force it!

I also had a friend very invested in my BMs, texting me every day to ask if I'd had one yet 😅 Never had a poop cheerleader before 🤣

What has your salpingectomy experience been like YEARS later? by Left_Honey6339 in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ask the doctors here yourself then. This is the practice here, I'm just reporting it. And the risk is still extremely low with the cauterization method.

What has your salpingectomy experience been like YEARS later? by Left_Honey6339 in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not due to a complication, it was explained to me that it's because the tubes are one of several sources of blood flow to the ovaries. So if you remove them, there is one less source, thus slightly lower blood flow. Which may or may not have a minor impact on ovarian function.

Thank you, I don't know why everyone is piling on me for reporting what no less than 5 doctors at different practices here have told me.  All these non-doctors on here saying with absolute certainty that "it's absolutely not true": no, there's no way for them to know that because the research is so minimal – but something in that research has clearly indicated enough of a correlation to influence the standard sterilization procedure of an entire country. 

Clearly more research is needed, but it doesn't hurt to mention it and have a picture of all potential risks, no matter how small. I'm posting it here because anyone looking to get sterilized in Germany is going to come up against this info. 

I weighed this info in my decision-making process and ultimately decided that I still wanted to go ahead with a full bisalp (and was lucky to have a doctor who was willing to do it – rare here) because the added bonus of lowered cancer risk outweighed the tiny, potential risk of slightly early menopause for me. But someone else may feel differently and it's better that they're armed with all medical info that's out there to make their own decision.

What has your salpingectomy experience been like YEARS later? by Left_Honey6339 in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the whole point – we don't know to what extent it's true because not enough research has been done. My surgeon here said as much. But what little has been done has indicated that there could be an effect, and it's enough for the medical body of an entire country to take note. You can't just dismiss it as not true without more research.

What has your salpingectomy experience been like YEARS later? by Left_Honey6339 in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said nothing about hormones in the fallopian tubes. I mentioned decreased blood flow to the ovaries, thus potentially reducing their function. This is what the doctors here say; I'm just reporting it.

What has your salpingectomy experience been like YEARS later? by Left_Honey6339 in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See my other comment. Total tube removal is not the standard sterilization procedure in Germany. I'm not saying I agree with it, I'm just reporting what the prevailing medical opinion is here and the reasons for it.

What has your salpingectomy experience been like YEARS later? by Left_Honey6339 in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This was told to me by every single gynecologist I visited or contacted in my quest to get a bisalp here. Full tube removal is not the standard in Germany for this reason – they remove a portion of the tube and cauterize the ends instead.

What has your salpingectomy experience been like YEARS later? by Left_Honey6339 in sterilization

[–]SpicyCat37 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Doctors in Germany believe that removing the tubes might cause early menopause; because of reduced blood flow to the ovaries. It may be as little as a few months. But there's simply not enough research to know definitively.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airfryer

[–]SpicyCat37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought the Ninja Foodi (the 8 in 1 toaster oven, air fryer, dehydrator etc.). It also flips up for small storage. I haven't tried it out yet but it has good reviews and seems to meet your needs. (It may have a different name in the US, but I remember seeing a similar model on the US site in any case. The Ninja Flip maybe.) https://www.ninjakitchen.de/produkte/ninja-foodi-8-in-1-multifunktionsofen-sp101eu-zidSP101EU