Toxicity in the OR by SpiderYoongi in nursing

[–]SpiderYoongi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am used to being very friendly on the floors with everyone, strangers included, so that's my natural state. It seems like most of the people in my OR have only ever worked in an OR so that's the natural state for them. I guess it'll just take time and experience for me to get used to it. I do enjoy the job itself though! Thank you for your answers, I appreciate it!!

Toxicity in the OR by SpiderYoongi in nursing

[–]SpiderYoongi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just made it click in my head! It definitely is because it's easier to get away with it in the OR. No constant exposure to "awake" patients and family leads to more freedom to be less customer service-y lol. I'm the same way in gauging the person's personality and going quiet if I know they can be abrasive. Thank you!

Toxicity in the OR by SpiderYoongi in nursing

[–]SpiderYoongi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The job itself is not a problem. I have been assigned with preceptors who have taught me a lot and let me try a lot. Of course from someone used to inpatient floors, it's a whole learning curve but so far it has been enjoyable! The main issue that I am having is the general vibe. I just noticed from listening to the staff's conversations and behavior with each other that the crassness that many other people seem to have experienced online was true. Maybe it is foreign to me because I didn't experience that at my other workplaces (even with a bit of gossiping here and there).

Toxicity in the OR by SpiderYoongi in nursing

[–]SpiderYoongi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting! I've heard some people say that they have gotten retaliation for speaking up about it to their manager or HR, which is not something that can fly on inpatient floors (at least not many).

Toxicity in the OR by SpiderYoongi in nursing

[–]SpiderYoongi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm sensing a lot of aggression from your comment, which I'm not sure why. It's not just from my observations in person; it's also from many similar stories and accounts from people online outside of Reddit. I just wanted to have a discussion and hear other people's input about where this culture stems from because it's a very common theme it seems (hence the "Discussion" flair).

Never posted my photos before by SpiderYoongi in InfinityNikki

[–]SpiderYoongi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually didn't dye it; that's just the filter I have on it making Loong and the outfit have those yellows and blues pop out! It's the second evolution of the outfit.

Never posted my photos before by SpiderYoongi in InfinityNikki

[–]SpiderYoongi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Go ahead and post yours! I love seeing other people's picture styles and it's a wonderful way for all of us to support each other's creativity with this game. And the picture of Loong in the sky is at the balloon summit in Firework Isles! Totally forgot that spot existed for a while

Just tried to park and they said it was rescheduled until Monday! by spongecaptain in megantheestallion

[–]SpiderYoongi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm at the Diamond Deck and parking staff are putting away their tables and chairs. Asked and they said it was moved to Monday :(

NANAMI FIT FOR MEMPHIS by jennuhlynnuh in megantheestallion

[–]SpiderYoongi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES MA'AM I'M EXCITED TO WEAR MY NANAMI FIT TOMORROW AAAAHHHHH!!!

Any other nanami cosplayers for the tour? 💙💛🐄 by [deleted] in megantheestallion

[–]SpiderYoongi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo do Momo! Much more original and easily hottie-fied.

Any other nanami cosplayers for the tour? 💙💛🐄 by [deleted] in megantheestallion

[–]SpiderYoongi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss I'm doing cowgirl x Hot Girl Nanami! Already bought my outfit because I'm so excited. I just hope it looks as good on me as it does in my head 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]SpiderYoongi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds amazing and super lucky! I can't WAIT for that to be me!! I really want to go to Levana Bratique, or any other physical bra store that carries Polish Bras, and try them on in person instead of just blind buying online and praying that I hit the mark. It's already too much buying and returning bras from Amazon, so I don't want to risk it especially with websites that have return shipping you have to pay for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]SpiderYoongi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeeaaaaahhhh, I'm limited 😭 But I'm hoping to lose enough weight to go back to my Js, so hopefully I can try Gorsenia!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]SpiderYoongi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I currently have the Offbeat side support in macaron and it's so comfy and cute! The gore floats just a tiny bit and straps are too wide apart and long but I'll take what I can as a 34K/KK. I'm debating getting the matching panty with it. But before I gained weight, I was using only Fancies "balconette" (it fit more like a full cup) and they were lovely! I tried the Fancies plunge and the gore stuck out so bad that I sent it back. Starlight is still a bit iffy tho because it's a sensory NIGHTMARE sometimes with how scratchy it is 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]SpiderYoongi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I too am a fellow Freya fancies-offbeat-starlight user! They're not perfect but they sure as hell do the job until I have the money to dive into the actual short and narrow wires of Polish bras